如果你長得很丑，那么你生活的意義何在？

Edwin Trench, former Project Procurement Manager at Jacobs (1989-2018) Jacobs前項(xiàng)目采購經(jīng)理（1989-2018）

You live to learn, grow, enjoy life, persevere and do what fills your soul and fulfills your dreams! Now, how do you go about this?
You face your life, take the decision to move on, and do it!

你活著是為了學(xué)習(xí)，獲得成長，享受生活，堅持不懈，去做那些充實(shí)你靈魂的事情，能夠幫助完成夢想的事情，這樣的話，你應(yīng)該怎么做呢？
你應(yīng)該直面自己的生活，決定繼續(xù)前進(jìn)，然后去做就對了！
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There are many people whose most fundamental needs are lacking, like the terminally ill or the desperately poor who obviously find it quite difficult to find happiness. Even so I personally have found people in that condition that attained happiness. A very recent case comes to mind of a young girl in her twenties that ended up a quadriplegic, who lost even the capability of using her hands. To make a long story short, she turned her life around, is an example to everybody who meets her, she is planning a trip to New York with a group of friends and another one to climb a mountain! She smiles and laughs and gives thanks every day for being alive. She took her family upon her shoulders, who were devastated with her situation, and you don’t even have to ask her…she shines with happiness!

有許多人最基本的需求都難以滿足，例如身患絕癥或絕望的窮人，他們顯然很難找到幸福。即便如此，我仍然發(fā)現(xiàn)處于這種狀態(tài)的人也獲得了幸福。我想到了一個最近的例子，一個二十多歲的年輕女孩四肢癱瘓了，甚至喪失了使用雙手的能力。簡而言之，她改變了自己的生活，每個見過她的人都可以以她為榜樣，她計劃與一群朋友和另一個人一起去紐約旅行，爬山！她非常樂觀，感恩活著的每一天。她的家人都為她的處境感到沮喪，但她扛起了整個家，你都不需要去詢問她，都可以看到她閃耀著幸福的光芒！
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Please remember that life is a decision, and you decide what to do with your life! If you want life to be over for you, that's what will happen, for indirectly that is what you have decided. If you decide to move on, do something with your life, then you will find out that no matter what your circumstances, you have choices, alternatives and a very good chance at being happy.
So please review your life, your capabilities, your passions, your abilities and find out what moves your boat...and follow it! The most poor, ugly, hated and disabled are not physically so, they are morally so, and you are not! Take your decisions in life and don't let life take them for, or from you!

請記住，生活是選擇，而你可以決定選擇怎么樣生活！如果你希望你的生活結(jié)束，那這就是必然的結(jié)果，因?yàn)殚g接的決定也是你自己決定的。如果你決定繼續(xù)前進(jìn)，想要做點(diǎn)什么，那么你會發(fā)現(xiàn)，無論你遇到什么情況，你都有選擇和備選，并且有機(jī)會獲得快樂。
因此，請回顧你的生活，能耐，激情，能力，并找出推動你前進(jìn)的動力，并且好好利用你的動力，最貧窮，最丑陋，最討厭和殘疾人并不是在身體上是這樣，而是在道德上他們是這樣。但你不是這樣的。你需要把握主動權(quán)，在生活中做出決定，不要讓生活為你做主，

Start by smiling, by being helpful, by showing who you are and what you are...you will come to realize people in the long run do not see your failures, your ugliness or your pain...they see the person behind (or in front, where you should be) of those facts, and react accordingly!
Fix yourself up (cleanliness is next to godliness), always smile (a smile makes a person beautiful!), open up, help people out, be there when people need help, give, be supportive, and people will see the real you, the smiling, clean, positive, helpful and fighting one, not the underdog, depressed, ugly one. In fact over time everybody will forget the one you think you are! Why? Because you will also have forgotten (or at least come to terms with it)...and moved on!
Please take a shot at it and see how it works, believe me, it does!

從微笑開始，幫助別人，展示自己開始，從長遠(yuǎn)來看，你會意識到人們看不到你的失敗，丑陋或痛苦，他們看到的是背后的這個人，而不是表象，他們看到的是實(shí)質(zhì)，并做出相應(yīng)反應(yīng)！
好好打扮自己（清潔是虔誠的基礎(chǔ)），一直微笑（微笑會使人變得美麗！），敞開心扉，幫助別人，幫助需要幫助的人，給予幫助，給予支持，別人會看到真實(shí)的你，一個樂觀，干凈，積極，樂于助人和上進(jìn)的人，而不是柔弱，沮喪，丑陋的人。實(shí)際上，隨著時間的流逝，每個人都會忘記你眼中的自己！為什么？因?yàn)槟阋矔洠蛘吣阋呀?jīng)接受了這個結(jié)果，然后繼續(xù)前進(jìn)！
請嘗試一下，看看這樣會帶來什么樣的結(jié)果，相信我，結(jié)果肯定是好的。
James Rosselli, Rector, St. Joseph of Arimathea Orth. Church 阿瑞瑪?shù)賮啞W斯特的圣約瑟夫教堂，教區(qū)牧師。
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But, let’s say you are.
So what?
We all want to be beautiful, thin and rich. Why? Because we spend time worrying about what other people might (and probably don’t) think, that would be better spent developing our talents and making a positive contribution, and getting satisfaction out of that.
Mother Theresa was no beauty queen, and she changed the world. We can’t all be Mother Theresa, but we can uplift our immediate environment.
What we want or would prefer, and what we have, are sometimes very different things. But if we can learn to be who we are, we can turn what we have to very good effect.

你真的很丑嗎？這是事實(shí)嗎？還是只有你有這種感覺？好的，假設(shè)你是真的丑。
那又怎么樣呢？
我們都想變得美麗，苗條又有錢。這是為什么呢？因?yàn)槲覀兓ㄌ鄷r間擔(dān)心別人會（可能不會）怎么想，其實(shí)我們最好花時間發(fā)展我們的才能并做出積極的貢獻(xiàn)，并從中獲得滿足感。
特蕾莎修女也不是選美皇后，但是她改變了世界。我們不可能全都是特蕾莎修女，但是我們可以改善我們的眼前的環(huán)境。
我們想要什么，或者我們更喜歡的東西，以及我們所擁有的東西，有時是完全不同的東西。但是，如果我們能夠?qū)W會成為自己，我們就能使我們所擁有的一切都能發(fā)揮非常好的效果。
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The other parts of the merged question dealt with feeling horrible and worthless.
The thing is, you aren’t worthless. God made you deliberately, and for a purpose. When you discover and pursue that purpose, you won’t feel horrible, anymore.
The thing is, you’ll never discover it trying to play by the secular world’s rules. All they’ll do is make you feel worse. Invest your life in Christ, and He’ll lead you to where He put you here to go. You’ll have a whole new life—the one you’re supposed to have—which is neither ugly nor worthless, and certainly not horrible.
If you want, feel free to write me at: frjames@arimatheachurch.com.

問題的另一部分就是如何處理覺得糟糕以及毫無價值的感覺。
問題是，你并非一文不值。上帝讓你來到這個世界上，是有目的的。當(dāng)你發(fā)現(xiàn)并追求這一目標(biāo)時，你就不會再感到糟糕了。
事實(shí)是，你會發(fā)現(xiàn)生活從來都不會試圖按照世俗世界的規(guī)則進(jìn)行游戲。他們要做的就是讓你感到更糟。上帝帶你來到這個世界，他會帶你去你應(yīng)該去的地方，你將擁有一種全新的生活，即應(yīng)該擁有的生活，你既不丑陋也不是一文不值，當(dāng)然也不可怕。
如果有需要的話，請隨時給我寫信：frjames@arimatheachurch.com。
Adrian Smith, Corporate Security企業(yè)安全專家

The purpose is to do whatever you have to do to become pretty so that you can have an easy life, access better jobs, better partners(less likely to cheat on you or use you for money), more friends, more fun… Work out. Yes, first 3 months suck. A lot. Afterwards it becomes pleasant. Grow your hair and style it. Wear thick insoles to be taller. Use glasses if you have some eye defects. You may consider cosmetic surgery if you have the stomach for it.
I mean… you owe it to yourself to do whatever is needed to actually enjoy life. Everybody else will give you lip service, but they won't help. They're actually happy you're ugly - less competition, someone to feel superior to… stuff like that.

你的目標(biāo)是用盡一切手段變得漂亮起來，這樣你就可以過上輕松的生活，獲得更好的工作，更好的合作伙伴（不太可能欺騙你或者利用你賺錢），更多的朋友，更多的樂趣等等等，堅持鍛煉，是的，前三個月很難堅持，堅持一段時間之后，鍛煉這件事情變得令人愉快。你可以留長頭發(fā)并且做發(fā)型，穿高跟鞋可以變得更高一點(diǎn)。如果眼睛有缺陷，那就戴眼鏡。如果你有想法的話，可以考慮進(jìn)行整容。
我的意思是，你可以做所有需要做的事情來真正享受生活，其他所有人都會為你提供口頭服務(wù)，但沒有實(shí)質(zhì)上的幫助，他們實(shí)際上對你的丑陋感到高興。就意味著對他來說競爭減少了，他們更喜歡這樣。

Lisa Mccutchen
You only have two choices either live or not live , you sound like you don’t want to die but can’t find whatever it Is to stay alive!!you need purpose and a good therapist because god doesn’t make mistakes which means he doesn’t think you are worthless, I believe we are here for a reason because death doesn’t make sense why small children die or why really bad things happen to really good people , I think it’s to learn something for someone, done get it done don’t , when I feel like you I find someone who had things way worse than me and it gives me perspective in knowing my life isn’t so bad, there are people out there with horrible problems , you get out of life what you put into it, life is short and death is forever, it’s a weird thing to think about but you have the control to make changes and make it better , one day at a time ! Please try ! I know you can !

你只有兩種選擇，要么活著，要么死去，聽起來你并不想要死去，但找不到能夠支撐你活著的東西！你需要一個目標(biāo)和一個好的醫(yī)生，因?yàn)樯系鄄粫稿e，這意味著他不認(rèn)為你一文不值，我相信我們在這里是有原因的，因?yàn)樗劳霾]有道理可言，不然為什么小孩子會死或?yàn)槭裁凑婧萌藭l(fā)生真正的壞事，我認(rèn)為這是為了讓某人學(xué)習(xí)某事，該完成的事情就不要拖延，當(dāng)我覺得你發(fā)現(xiàn)某人的事情比我差的時候，讓你感覺你的生活還不是很糟糕，你所擁有的生活就是你為生活投入的生活的總和，生命是短暫的，但是死亡卻是永恒的，這是一件很奇怪的事情，但你擁有控制權(quán)，一次一天地做出改變并且讓生活變得更好！請嘗試 ！我知道你可以 ！
Chetna Chauhan, Research scholar, IIM Rohtak IIM Rohtak研究學(xué)者

1. How do you define “ugly?”
2. Is your definition a perferct one?
3. If it’s not, then why worry about it?
4. Let’s assume the definition to be perfect. Do the people who think that you are ugly, matter?
5. In case they matter, do they love you?
6. If they don’t love you then why do you care? Haters will anyway hate you.
7. If they love you they will find you beautiful. Right?
Hope this set of questions gives you the answer.

1.你是怎么樣定義“丑陋”的？
2.你的定義是否恰當(dāng)？
3.如果不是，那為什么還要擔(dān)心呢？
4.假設(shè)定義是完美的。 那些認(rèn)為你丑陋的人真的很重要嗎？
5.萬一他們重要，他們愛你嗎？
6.如果他們不愛你，那你為什么要在乎呢？ 討厭你的人還是會討厭你的。
7.如果他們愛你，他們會發(fā)現(xiàn)你很美麗。不是嗎？
希望這一系列問題能給你答案。
Jessee Beighley, I have a knack for understanding perspectives so I can normally see both sides 我有一種理解觀點(diǎn)的訣竅，所以我通常能看到問題的兩面性

If you die then you know what happens and that is nothing. However if you choose to live and try to meet people that are similar to you and open yourself to the idea of success and being in a relationship then it is very likely that it will happen. The only thing that can truly prevent you from success is yourself so don’t worry so much and just go for what you want.
Living means you have free access to an almost infinite amount of opportunities and possibilities. That has nothing to do with looks it is true for everyone. All you need to do is to look for them.

如果你死了，你就知道會發(fā)生什么，那你會發(fā)現(xiàn)什么都沒有。然而，如果你選擇試著去認(rèn)識與你相似的人，并且去努力追求成功，嘗試建立一段關(guān)系，那么成功很可能會發(fā)生。唯一能真正阻止你成功的是你自己，所以不要太擔(dān)心，只管去做你想要的。生活意味著你可以自由獲得幾乎無限的機(jī)會和可能性。這與外表無關(guān)，對每個人來說都是這樣。你要做的就是去找他們。
Tyrone Mullins, Retired Military 退休軍人

You are a valuable person who is on the earth for a purpose. You have to decide what makes you happy , find a goal that can help you get over your feelings about your lack of worth. Looks are deceiving and being ugly is in the eyes of the beholder. If you don't want to waste your time on your negatives, seek helpfrom atherapist . You have some underlying causes for these attitudes, and its never too late to better yourself. Good luck!

你是一個有價值的人，每個人來到這個地球上，都是有原因的，你必須知道讓自己感到快樂的原因，找到可以幫助你克服對自己缺乏價值的感覺的目標(biāo)。外表是騙人的，丑陋是旁觀者眼中的丑惡，如果你不想在悲觀情緒上浪費(fèi)時間，請尋求治療師的幫助。你有這些態(tài)度存在一些潛在原因，還有要改善自己永遠(yuǎn)都不會太晚。 祝好運(yùn)！
Robberto van Dijk, lived in Amsterdam住在阿姆斯特丹

Girls always desire the alpha male who is a handsome m***fokkers nowadays with a big wallet and huge c*ck. Sorry guys if you do not have one of these three features life is getting really difficult nowadays. Even ugly girls will look away and will hope you to move along asap. This is the era of the women who are making the decisions and are in charge right now. Unfortunately we depend on them - hence the big amount of singles these days. Only way out is to become rich guys. We have to deal with spoiled picky ladies these days unlike our old men. I really envy those guys and the times they lived in. Sometimes, I wish I was one of them, life was so much easier back then.

女孩們總是希望男生是英俊瀟灑的，有錢有大cock。抱歉，如果你沒有，那么如今的生活將變得越來越困難。即使是丑陋的女孩也不會正眼看過來，希望你盡快行動起來。這是現(xiàn)在由婦女來做決定和掌控的時代。不幸的是，我們依賴她們，如今有大量的單身人士，唯一的出路就是成為有錢人。這些天，我們必須面對與我們這些老男人不同的嬌生慣養(yǎng)的挑剔女人。我真的很羨慕那些家伙和他們生活的時代。有時候，我希望我是其中的一員，那樣的生活要輕松得多。
Jion Hynzie Tacsan, works at NCR在NCR工作
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Just because you are ugly doesn't mean you can't live your life the way you want it to be. And besides, you're discriminating yourself. You're in a self-pity situation as of the moment as you ask this question. It's only on your own point of view that you are ugly. No one is ugly in this world because the real beauty doesn't lie on your face and your physical attributes. Just because you are different doesn't mean you're an outcast to this world. That means you are unique. I am not beautiful nor pretty nor sexy but I love myself and I am proud to say that I am unique in my own way and confidently beautiful in my heart.

如果你只是丑陋并不意味著你就無法按照自己的方式生活。而且，這是你自己在歧視自己。當(dāng)你問這個問題時，你目前處于自卑狀態(tài)。丑陋只是出于你自己的觀點(diǎn)。這個世界上沒有人是丑陋的，因?yàn)檎嬲拿啦⒉辉谟谀愕哪樅湍愕纳眢w素質(zhì)。 僅僅因?yàn)槟闩c眾不同并不意味著你就被這個世界拋棄了。那意味著你是獨(dú)一無二的。我既不美麗，也不漂亮，也不性感，但我愛自己，我很自豪地說自己與眾不同，我內(nèi)心是充滿自信的。
Vaughan Schmidt, always learning一直在學(xué)習(xí)

Yes. Ok well no, it’s not the most painful. But it is pretty damn difficult.
Imagine a race, all the good looking folk get to start on the starting line, whereas all the ugly folk have to start 10, 20, 30 metres or more back, depending on how ugly they are. That race is modern society, and like it or not that is how modern society operates, in general. The ugly folk could still win or place, but they must try that much harder. Whereas the good looking folk have a head-start simply by virtue of being good looking. Some examples: If two people - one ugly, one good looking - with exactly the same personality and experience apply for the same front-of-house job at a restaurant, or tourist attraction, who do you think will get it? How about modelling? Seen any ugly models around lately? Unique perhaps, but not ugly. Ever hear the expression ‘He’s got a good face for radio’? Another example: Susan Boyle. When she first walked onto that stage, she was looked at with derision by the judges and audience alike. Why? Because she’s ugly. It wasn’t until she opened her mouth that everyone changed their tune, no pun intended.
Look, I’m sorry, I know this answer is not politically correct, and I should be all with the “It’s how you are on the inside that counts!! Sunshine and rainbows! Yay!!”.
that is not what I have experienced or observed in life, IN GENERAL. There are of course exceptions.

不，這不是最痛苦的。但這確實(shí)很難。
想象一下一場比賽，所有好看的人都可以從起跑線開始，而所有丑陋的人都必須從后面10、20、30米或更遠(yuǎn)處開始，具體取決于他們的丑陋程度。這個種族就是現(xiàn)代社會，不管喜歡與否，這就是現(xiàn)代社會的運(yùn)作方式。丑陋的人仍然可以獲勝或占有一席之地，但他們必須更加努力。而好看的人只是因?yàn)楹每炊鴵碛蓄I(lǐng)先優(yōu)勢。例如：如果有兩個人，一個長得丑，一個長得好看，個性和經(jīng)驗(yàn)完全相同的人在餐館或旅游勝地申請相同的前臺工作，你認(rèn)為誰會得到這份工作？再來說說模特？你最近有沒有看到丑陋的模特？也許獨(dú)特，但并不難看。是否曾經(jīng)聽說過“你長了一張很適合廣播的臉”這樣的表達(dá)方式？另一個例子：蘇珊·博伊爾（Susan Boyle）。當(dāng)她第一次走進(jìn)舞臺時，評委和聽眾都嘲笑她。為什么？因?yàn)樗艹?。直到她張開嘴，每個人都改變了態(tài)度，沒有雙關(guān)。
聽著，我感到很抱歉，我知道這個答案在政治上是不正確的，我應(yīng)該說“重要的是你的內(nèi)在！！陽光和彩虹！好極了！！”。這并不是我一生中經(jīng)歷或觀察到的。當(dāng)然也有例外。
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Sarah Lee
I’ve been ugly my whole life. Sure, it sucks. Plenty of things about it suck.
People assume the worst of you because you are ugly. No one cares about your input in school projects as they literally think you are too stupid to contribute. Going to clubs, going to beaches, going outside. Nasty looks everywhere. You don’t get to enjoy life carefree like some other people do.
But I honestly think it could be worst. I know there are plenty of things I would rather not deal with if I had to trade. I think that people often think of things as “the grass is greener on the other side” because they don’t really think much of what the other side entails. Being confined to a wheelchair and being dependent on places having some sort of accommodation for you. “Oh, this building has no access for me! Oh Joy! NOT!” Being in extreme physical pain all the time. Various health issues.

我一生都很丑。當(dāng)然，這是非常糟糕的。關(guān)于它的很多東西都糟透了。
人們會認(rèn)為你最糟糕，因?yàn)槟愫茈y看。沒有人關(guān)心你在學(xué)校項(xiàng)目中的投入，因?yàn)樗麄儚淖置嫔险J(rèn)為你太愚蠢而無法做出貢獻(xiàn)。去俱樂部，去海灘，去戶外。到處都是討厭的東西。你無法像其他人一樣享受無憂無慮的生活。
但老實(shí)說，這可能是最糟糕的。我知道，如果必須交易，我有很多事情我不愿意處理。我認(rèn)為人們經(jīng)常認(rèn)為另一面的世界是完美的，因?yàn)樗麄儾]有真正考慮另一面真正的的含義。只能坐在輪椅上，并要依賴為你提供某種住宿的地方?！芭叮@棟樓對我來說是無法進(jìn)入的！噢，喬！不！”一直處于極度的身體疼痛中。還遇到了各種健康問題。

I mean, at the end of the day, you can easily go to the woods away from humanity and pretty much all your ugly issues are solved. You can’t really escape from a lot of health issues.
I don’t know, but I’m the ugliest person I know. Easily. And most days I’m fairly happy. The issue has always been my interactions with other people. So, if I could choose, I may very well choose to be ugly my whole life again. Except I would have spent more energy towards never spending (physical) time with other people. Which is really what I do already, so….

我的意思是，歸根結(jié)底，你可以輕松地遠(yuǎn)離人類走到樹林，幾乎所有的丑陋問題都得到解決。但是你還是無法擺脫許多健康問題。
我不知道，但我是我知道的最丑的人。而且大多數(shù)日子我都很開心。問題在于我與其他人的互動。因此，如果我可以選擇的話，我很可能會選擇做一輩子丑八怪。除非我本來就可以花更多的精力來避免與其他人共度時間。我確實(shí)已經(jīng)在做這件事。

Anonymous
Despite all that “beauty lies within” stuff you may hear people say, knowing you’re not physically appealing isn’t such a great feeling - especially when you know no one will even bother to ‘butter it up’ and tell you that you look attractive simply because they know it’d be a very ugly lie which you’d see through straight away (pun intended).

盡管你可能會聽到人們說“內(nèi)在美”，但是知道自己身體上沒有吸引力并不是一種很好的感覺，尤其是當(dāng)你知道沒有人會費(fèi)心去“拍馬屁”并告訴你你看起來很有魅力，是因?yàn)樗麄冎肋@是一個非常丑陋的謊言，你會很快看穿。

When I was something like 7 or 8 years old I would almost shed tears watching some R & B artist (who was honestly REALLY good-looking) perform - I wondered why I didn’t look as good as he did. Of course I was a kid then, but when I was something like 14 I observed older unappealing people and realized how much waste of life it would be to keep from living life simply because you’re not good-looking.

當(dāng)我大概7、8歲的時候，看著某個R&B的藝術(shù)家（他真的很帥）的表演，我?guī)缀鯐鳒I——我不知道為什么我看起來沒有他那么好。當(dāng)然，那時我還是個孩子，但在我14歲左右的時候，我觀察到了年紀(jì)較大、沒有吸引力的人，意識到僅僅因?yàn)槟汩L得不好看而想要擺脫生活是多么浪費(fèi)生命。

I simply said “Fuck it, I won’t wait until I look good to start living life! Heck, Danny Trejo’s face looks like shit but even he’s more famous & successful than I am.”
So, no - being ugly isn’t the most painful way to live. Life get’s a whole lot better when you finally decide “Well, things can’t get much worse than this.”

我只是簡單地說“去他媽的，我不會等到我看起來好了才開始生活的！見鬼，丹尼·特雷喬的臉看起來像狗屎，但就連他也比我更出名、更成功?！?br /> 所以，丑陋不是最痛苦的。當(dāng)你最終決定“好吧，事情不會變得更糟”時，生活會變得更好

Qing Li Archer
Being ugly on the inside (i.e. your personality and the way you treat people) is the most painful way to live. Because then it doesn’t matter if you’re a magazine-worthy-model type of beautiful. People will like you for your beauty, but once they get to know you, they’ll either keep you around because of your outer beauty & secretly hate you for your inner ugly or they’ll drop you really fast.

內(nèi)在丑陋（即你的性格和對待人的方式非常丑）那樣活著才痛苦，因?yàn)槟菢拥脑?，你是不是雜志類的美女模特就沒關(guān)系了。人們會為你的美麗而喜歡你，但是一旦認(rèn)識你，他們要么會因?yàn)槟愕耐庠诿蓝涯懔粼谏磉?，然后暗中討厭你?nèi)在的丑陋，要么他們會很快拋棄你。

Being ugly on the outside (i.e. physical looks) doesn’t have to twist how you look on the inside. Some of the most beautiful people I know are considered ‘ugly’ on the outside, but then when I’m feeling down and they want to cheer me up they can give the most beautiful smile because they actually mean it.

外表丑陋（即外表看起來）不必改變內(nèi)在外觀。我認(rèn)識的一些最美麗的人在外面被認(rèn)為是“丑陋”的，但是當(dāng)我心情低落并想讓我振作起來時，他們可以給我最美麗的笑容，因?yàn)樗麄兪呛苷嬲\的。