你所收到并愿意傳遞的最好的建議是什么
What is the best advice you''ve ever received and are willing to pass on?
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網(wǎng)友：我收到的一些建議已經(jīng)改變了我的生活！你可以擁有一切，只是不能同時擁有一切。這句話很直白，讓你放松，你可以擁有你想要的一切，只是不是一下子而已。但你絕對可以擁有一切......
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What is the best advice you've ever received and are willing to pass on?
你所收到并愿意傳遞的最好的建議是什么?
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There are a few that I have received that have been life transforming!
You can have it all, just not all at the same time.
This statement is so freeing and puts you at ease in a way that relax you can have everything you want, just not all at once. But you can definitely have it all!
Action drives Behavior
Contrary to popular belief that it is our behavior that leads to us taking action, it is in fact our actions that will change our behaviors. Often when you want to change a habit, taking the right action despite not feeling like it, is a vote to what kind of behavior you want to have which in turn shapes our Identity and Personality. When we keep doing a certain action everyday, we tend to relate as a person who does this. For example if we began to run every morning, After a certain number of days we will start to think of ourselves being a runner and hence our behaviors will reflect that.
A committed decision is all you require for something to materialize
我收到的一些建議已經(jīng)改變了我的生活！
你可以擁有一切，只是不能同時擁有一切。
這句話很直白，讓你放松，你可以擁有你想要的一切，只是不是一下子而已。但你絕對可以擁有一切！
行動驅(qū)動行為
與普遍認(rèn)為我們的行為決定我們采取行動相反，事實(shí)上是我們的行為改變了我們的行為。通常，當(dāng)你想改變一個習(xí)慣，盡管不喜歡它，采取正確的行動就行，什么樣的行為是你想擁有的，進(jìn)而塑造我們的身份和個性。當(dāng)我們每天都在做某件事的時候，我們傾向于認(rèn)為自己是做這件事的人來被聯(lián)系。例如，如果我們每天早上開始跑步，經(jīng)過一定的天數(shù)后，我們會開始認(rèn)為自己是一個跑步者，因此我們的行為會反映這一點(diǎn)。
一個堅定的決定就是你所需要的一切
Being Vulnerable is the single greatest act of courage one can perform
Vulnerability is often considered to be a weakness. Hence everyone runs away from it. The truth is the opposite. Vulnerability is an act of Courage. Showing up into the arena and getting your ass kicked is really difficult and hard. What we need to understand that if we don’t show up, we can’t truly love, be loved, belong and discover our greatness. That is why showing up despite the fact that you could get hurt bad is an act of courage!
我們常常傾向于推遲行動和計劃，直到我們有足夠的錢，足夠的時間，足夠的人脈等等，而這些都不是必需的。唯一的先決條件是堅定的決定。一旦你做到了，時間，金錢，人，任何你認(rèn)為你需要的東西都會逐步到位，因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)在你已經(jīng)為他們創(chuàng)造了有用的東西。坐著等他們就行，，一旦你還沒有為他們創(chuàng)造一個用途，他們永遠(yuǎn)不會來找你。例如，你推遲了買房的決定，直到你有足夠的錢，但事實(shí)是，直到你作出購買特定房子的決定，你發(fā)現(xiàn)錢不是決定因素，因此它將是如此難以捉摸！
脆弱是一個人所能表現(xiàn)出的最大的勇氣
脆弱性通常被認(rèn)為是一個弱點(diǎn)。所以大家都逃避它。事實(shí)恰恰相反。脆弱是勇氣的表現(xiàn)。在競技場上被踢屁股真的很難面對的事。我們需要明白的是，如果我們不出現(xiàn)，我們就不能真正地去愛、被愛和發(fā)現(xiàn)我們的偉大。這就是為什么盡管你可能會受傷，但你還是要表現(xiàn)出勇氣！
Thanks for the request! My dear friend.
Let me tell you a story. A great story that will give you a greatest life lessons. So here we go…..
Sonu & monu they are the best friends of their childhood. They lived in a same village. They trust each other, they like each other, they help each other & they love each other.
They are going to the same school & after the school time, in their home they were spend their time with each other. Time passes on & their love, trust increases on.
Sonu is a honest & a simple boy but monu is smart & change himself according to the time. Monu advises Sonu that world is not honest & people changes according to the time.
But his mind was not able to understand this because he has no self-respect, self awareness, confidence on himself & he doesn't thing that he is a capable of anything.
They are pass out their 10th & now the life will going to be change. When they are going to the class 11th monu changed. He cheated his best friend Sonu & Sonu trusted him so monu says sonu I will be giving you a second hand class 11th book so be ready.
Monu manages the books & tell Sonu that these books prise is just 1100 RS so do you want it. He says, yes! I trust you. But the thing is some books prise was not written in that book but after that unfortunately! He again trust him blindly.
謝謝你的請求(提供意見)！我親愛的朋友。
讓我給你講個故事。一個偉大的故事，將給你一個偉大的人生教訓(xùn)。他們在童年時候是最好的朋友。他們住在同一個村莊。他們互相信任，彼此喜歡，互相幫助以及互相愛對方。
他們要去同一所學(xué)校，放學(xué)后以及在家里，他們在一起度過了時間。時間流逝，他們的愛，信任不斷增加。
索努是個誠實(shí)的男孩，但蒙努很聰明，并根據(jù)時間改變自己。蒙努建議索努，世界不誠實(shí)，人心是會變化的。
但是他的頭腦無法理解這一點(diǎn)，因?yàn)樗麤]有自尊和自我意識，也不自信，他不認(rèn)為自己是一個有能力的人。
他們已經(jīng)度過了第10個年頭，現(xiàn)在生活將改變。當(dāng)他們?nèi)サ?1班的時候，他們改變了。他欺騙了他的好朋友索努，索努信任他，所以當(dāng)蒙努說我會給你一本二手的第11班的書。
蒙努管理著這些書，告訴索努，這些書的價格只有1100盧比，你想要它嗎。他說想要，我相信你。
His father also says don't trust him! But he doesn't listen his father's advise. After that he buy the book.
After that time Sonu recognised that is friend was cheated him. He can't believe but that's the truth. Destiny give the lots of hints to the Sonu but he couldn't recognise.
But his behaviour not so much change after that incident. He doesn't give the importance for his self respect. He cares alot that what the people says about him.
Time passes on and his classmates makes fun of him. But he didn't care about his self respect and he was thinking that if I am going to take any action against them so I lose my friend.
He doesn't know the true definition of the friendship. He was mentally harassed by their classmates in their schools 2 year. When the Life OK same then he can understand that what is the definition of self respect, it doesn't matter what the people says about you.
After that to hear you understand the true meaning of life and importance of life. Now he can understand the the what is the importance of his self respect, his self awareness, his confidence in his life.
Now! he is a matured person and understand the life very well.
放學(xué)后，當(dāng)他的一個同學(xué)說不要買書，給他一些暗示，但他不明白。
他父親也說不要相信他！但他不聽父親的勸告，之后他買了這本書。
那以后，索努認(rèn)出是被朋友欺騙了。他不敢相信，但事實(shí)就是這樣。命運(yùn)給了索努許多暗示，但他記不住。
但在那次事件之后，他的行為并沒有發(fā)生太大的變化。他不重視自己的自尊。他非常關(guān)心人們對他的評價。
時間一天天過去，他的同學(xué)們?nèi)⌒λ?。但他不在乎自己的自尊，他在想，如果我要對他們采取任何行動，我就失去了我的朋友?br /> 他不知道友誼的真正定義。他在學(xué)校的2年里受到同學(xué)精神上的騷擾。當(dāng)生活還過得去的時候，他理解自尊的定義是人們對你說什么并不重要。
在那之后你才明白了生命的真正意義和生命的重要性。現(xiàn)在他可以理解什么是他的自尊，他的自我意識，他對生活的信心的重要性。
現(xiàn)在！他是一個成熟的人，對生活很了解。
· Don't trust anyone blindly
· Be a confident person
· Self respect self awareness self confidence is really important thing in our life
· Do not think so much that what the people says about you just think about those thing that is good for you
· Believe in yourself
· Listen your parents advice and give first priority of them
· Your friends are temporary, they exist one day
· Love yourself the most not anyone
· Recognise the hands of your destiny that what what will your destiny want to tell you
· Change yourself according to the time
· All the persons in your life exist one day
· Money matters a lot
· Trying to do your work most of the time alone, don't take anybody's help every time.
This is the life lessons that is best for you and they will help you do for becoming the successful.
所以現(xiàn)在我要告訴你，什么是最好的建議：
不要盲目地信任任何人；
成為一個自信的人；
自尊、自我意識、自信在我們的生活中確實(shí)是重要的；
不要太多地思考別人對你的看法，只考慮那些對你有利的事情；
相信自己；
聽取父母的建議，并優(yōu)先考慮他們的意見；
你的朋友是臨時的；
愛自己，而不是其他任何人；
根據(jù)時間改變自己；
金錢很重要；
盡量獨(dú)自完成工作，不要每次都得到任何人的幫助。
這是對你最好的人生的教訓(xùn)，他們將幫助你成為成功。
Backstory: So I was giving my H.S.C. I was attending tution for that. But unfortunately the tution which I sexted was not good. She(my teacher) rarely use to clear my concepts, infact she use to ask me to mentor students of younger age. I decided not to share this to my parents because we already paid fees in advance and thus don’t wanted to trouble my parents. Okay, if you think I did wrong on first hand than it’s not that simple. I have 2 brothers and they both are mentally retarded, we were facing financial crisis those days, my parents were already tensed those days and they have been worried since ages for my brothers and thus I didn’t wanted to trouble them more. This continued long and it only got worse. Finally, I decided to share this to my parents but I think I was more than late. It was only 20 days left for my exams(As I am not an on-time preparer so I think 20 days for me is….unimaginable).The first thing they did was to make me leave that tution. Even though they complained but as per my expection we didn’t got a single penny back(ofcourse it was my fault), also financially we were not that stable to take another tution. My board exams were near. I was tensed those days thinking about,
What if I fail?
How will my parents react to this?
What will happen to my future?
What will happen to my family then?
背景故事：我有次機(jī)會進(jìn)入“H.S.C”。為此我報了個輔導(dǎo)客。但不幸的是，我選擇的家教不好。她（我的老師）很少給我澄清概念，事實(shí)上她還要求我指導(dǎo)較年輕的學(xué)生。我決定不把這個說給我父母知道，因?yàn)槲覀円呀?jīng)預(yù)付了費(fèi)用，所以不想給我父母添麻煩。好吧，如果你認(rèn)為我第一選擇就做錯了，其實(shí)要做決定沒那么簡單。我有兩個兄弟，他們都是弱智，我們面臨著金融危機(jī)，我的父母已經(jīng)緊緊張張的過日子，他們一直擔(dān)心我的兄弟，所以我不想麻煩他們。這種情況持續(xù)了很長時間，變得越來越糟。最后，我決定把這個分享給我的父母，但我想可能來不及了?？荚囍皇Ｏ?0天了（因?yàn)槲也皇且粋€按時備考的人，所以我認(rèn)為20天對我來說是難以想象的），他們做的第一件事就是讓我離開輔導(dǎo)班。盡管他們抱怨，但按照我的預(yù)期，我們一分錢也沒有拿回來（當(dāng)然這是我的錯），而且我們的經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況也不太穩(wěn)定，不能再接受一次輔導(dǎo)。我的考核日期快到了。那些日子我很緊張，
如果我失敗了怎么辦？
我父母對此有何反應(yīng)？
我的未來會怎樣？
那我的家人會怎么樣？
因?yàn)槲沂莻€內(nèi)向的人，我以前只有一個朋友（同學(xué)），但她家離我有點(diǎn)遠(yuǎn)。我問她是否能在學(xué)習(xí)上幫助我。她說她會的，但我得去她家。我把這個告訴我父母。我父親說他會每天送我去她家。我父親每天都送我去那里（他是我的英雄）。我在她家學(xué)習(xí)了大約15天。我非常感謝我的朋友，那些天她真的幫了我很多。盡管我得到了她的幫助，我還是不抱希望。我慢慢地放棄了想法，不管怎樣我都會失敗。我媽媽不知道怎么回事猜出來了我的想法。也許她感覺到了。我仍然記得她每天微笑著對我說的話：“眼睛（看到的）可能會讓你害怕，但孩子的手可能不會。你可能認(rèn)為這是不可能的，但一旦你開始這樣做，你永遠(yuǎn)不知道明天會有什么。別擔(dān)心，這只是一個考試?！薄Ｎ覜Q定不再多想了，盡了最大努力。我還記得考試前一天，我真的在發(fā)抖，我很害怕。考試那天（第一天），我父母祝我好運(yùn)，并試圖夸耀我的信心。他們滿懷希望。我決定不讓他們失望，面對現(xiàn)實(shí)。我的得分（正確率）是64.34%，我當(dāng)時很高興，我的父母比我自己更支持我，我非常感謝有這么支持我的父母。
It was one of the week days. I was complaining about what happened to me that day. I kept saying this to my friend in a phone call. Then she inquired, Do you have a plan for tomorrow? I'm confused and asked what about tomorrow? She laughed then inquired so you don't have any plan for tomorrow ? i confirmed yes.
Then why are you expecting to something happen just because you want it to happen? and she said like this,
Time is like a express train. It will pace to other end so fast. If you want to reach any other place you only should step in and travel and explore. Stop standing at the same place and complaining about other passengers.
and ended up saying, go with a flow. It's not wrong. But make a plan and go with that flow. If you are not ready to push yourself first some events or situations will be created automatically at that time don't regret.
I found helpful.
這是一周中的一天。我在抱怨那天發(fā)生在我身上的事。我一直在電話里對我的朋友說這些。然后她問，你明天有計劃嗎？我很困惑，問明天干嘛？她笑了，然后問：你明天沒有什么計劃？我確認(rèn)是的。
那你為什么僅僅因?yàn)橄Ｍ虑榘l(fā)生就期望它發(fā)生呢？她這樣說，
時間就像一列快車。它會很快地走向另一端。如果你想到達(dá)任何其他地方，你只需要踏進(jìn)去旅行和探索，不應(yīng)該站在同一個地方抱怨其他乘客。
最后說順其自然就好。但是，得制定一個計劃，并按照這個流程去做。如果你還沒有準(zhǔn)備好推動自己前進(jìn)，一些事件或情況是會自動發(fā)生的，不要后悔。
我覺得這很有用。
Hi.
The best advice I have ever received is not from the philosophy books or from the mouth of the talks by one of the motivational speakers or during a Ted talk or that sort. Nope.
My best advice is “Never argue with idiots. They bring you down to their own level and beat you with experience.” It was said by comedian George Carlin and is one of the most apt ones. If you ever find yourself in a situation where you are arguing, you are right and the other person is hell bent on proving you wrong, you will find the use of this advice. Unless you are a lawyer, of course.
Always remember that if you are arguing with an idiot, there is no use of losing your worth. Simply accept what they are saying and move on. Be it personal life or professional life, always know your opponent before throwing yourself into an argument. Always value your time and avoid any unwanted scuffle.
你好。
我所收到的最好的建議不是來自哲學(xué)書籍，也不是來自某位勵志演講者的演講，更不是來自Ted演講或諸如此類的演講。最好的建議是“不要和白癡爭論。喜劇演員喬治·卡林說：“他們把你帶到自己的水平，用經(jīng)驗(yàn)打敗你?！?。如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己處于一種爭論中，你是對的，而另一個人卻執(zhí)意要證明你錯了時候，你會發(fā)現(xiàn)這個建議是有用的。當(dāng)然，除非你是律師。
永遠(yuǎn)記住，如果你和一個白癡爭論，是沒有用的。簡單地接受他們所說的，然后繼續(xù)前進(jìn)。無論是個人生活還是職業(yè)生活，在與人爭論之前，一定要了解你的對手。總是珍惜你的時間，避免任何不必要的混戰(zhàn)。
Don’t let fear grip you
Work then play
Don’t let best get in the way of better
Plan for success
Let the shovel do the work
“Happy wife, Happy Life”
Look after myself, so there would be one less scoundrel in the world.
All material obxts fade and rust, no matter how they glitter.
It takes 30 days to make a habit and three days to break one.
Die with memories, not dreams
If you are going to be a bear, be a grizzly.
Tell the truth in the first place and you won’thave to remember what you said.
If you have an idea and everyone says it’s a great idea, everyone, it’s not a great idea. When you hear that will never work, no one has ever asked for that, or my favorite, we can’t do that, that would change everything. Then you might have something worth fighting for.
不要讓恐懼控制你
先工作后娛樂
別讓最好的阻礙了更好的（選項）
計劃成功
讓鏟子來干活（利用工具）
“幸福的妻子，幸福的生活”
好好照顧我自己，這樣世界上就少了一個無賴。
所有的實(shí)物都會褪色生銹，不管它們?nèi)绾伍W閃發(fā)光。
養(yǎng)成一個習(xí)慣需要30天，改掉一個習(xí)慣需要3天。
帶著回憶而不是夢想死去
如果你想成為一只熊，那就做一只灰熊吧。
如果你一開始就說實(shí)話，你就不必記住你說過的話了。
如果你有一個想法，每個人都說這是一個偉大的想法，那么這不是一個偉大的想法。
當(dāng)你聽說這永遠(yuǎn)行不通，從來沒有人要求這樣做過，或者我最喜歡的人也一樣，那我們不能聽他們的，這樣你就有值得為之奮斗的東西了。
Hi, that is a beautiful question. Thank you for the request to answer. It is however a very deep question;
It is to observe nothing (but for the initial sight) of/from the ‘mortal’ two eyes we perceive.
Only thru the thing that ‘teases as the ‘3rd eye mystery’ can a holy value ever really be seen.
That 3rd eye is not mortally visible . . . but it sees thru a ‘purified’ heart and soul only.
To mystics, it is known as the 3rd eye; to the Jews it is known as the ‘inner fire’; to those who follow Yahshua Hamashiach . .
So you can now understand; No, it’s not like one of those little ‘word teasing’ slips, baked inside a fortune cookie.
At times it is perceived as difficult to solve as a ‘rubix cube’,
Hey, you have a great day
嗨，這是個很好的問題。謝謝你的提問。然而，這是一個非常深奧的問題。
它是我們“凡人”所兩只眼睛觀察不到的
只有通過被戲稱為“第三眼之謎”的東西，才能真正看到神圣的價值。
第三只眼睛是看不見的。但它只看穿了一顆純凈的心和靈魂。
對神秘主義者來說，它被稱為第三只眼；對猶太人來說，它被稱為“內(nèi)在之火”；
所以你現(xiàn)在可以理解了；這不像是在幸運(yùn)餅里烤的那種文字游戲的小紙條。
有時它被認(rèn)為是很難解決的一個'魔方。
嘿，祝你今天愉快。
The best advice i want to pass is the one that i haven't received from anyone but i have experienced it in my own life and took a great lesson from it.
Here it is : Never get too much attached to anyone. Anyone means anyone. You never know when they will betray you. That thing hurts us tremendously and brake us and also it shakes our self confidence.
Alway be friend and remain in contact but never ever get attached to someone. It's s not easy to overcome and accept. That betrayal feeling gives tremendous pain and gives birth to more problems. I faced it, suffered it and understood it.
我想傳遞的最好的建議是我從未從任何人那里得到過的，但我在自己的生活中經(jīng)歷過，并從中得到了很好的教訓(xùn)。
就是這樣：永遠(yuǎn)不要對任何人有太多的依戀。任何人都意味著其他。你永遠(yuǎn)不知道他們什么時候會背叛你。這件事會傷害了我們，也動搖了我們的自信。
永遠(yuǎn)和朋友保持聯(lián)系，但永遠(yuǎn)不要依戀一個人。克服和接受它并不容易。這種背叛的感覺會帶來巨大的痛苦，也會產(chǎn)生更多的問題。我面對它，忍受它，理解它。
Sharing and giving nature is one of the greatest virtue any human can ever have to led the growth in his/her life,by this very proven fact it's a great advice that I want to pass on.sharing knowledge on quora and thinking and seeing things through different perspective meanwhile helping me to increase my deep level thinking.
It goes similarly in life as well,what you put in it's comes around in many fold.
For example,I bow a seed of mango and it grow up after while it gives me several mangos.
Think it in every manner.
So the fact of matter is give something good and receive so many things in return.
I do.
學(xué)會分享和給予是能引領(lǐng)任何人的生命成長的最偉大的美德之一，這是一個我想傳遞的非常好的建議，從不同的角度思考和看待事物，同時幫助我進(jìn)行深層次思考。
在生活中也是如此，你放進(jìn)去的東西有很多方面。
例如，我親手種下芒果種子，它長大后，而它給了我?guī)讉€芒果。
所以，事實(shí)是給予美好的東西，并得到許多東西作為回報。
People get so many advice in their life time i also got , but no one gave me any crucial advice that i can share .The best advice i received from my own experience is “Never expect too much from others” . If you do good for someone then don’t expect that good will come to you in return. Life is not a business transactions in which there is always equal give and take. If we think it so then we only hurt ourselves. So whatever you want to do whether to help others or any other thing, do that by your own heart without expecting the same in return.
人們在他們的一生中得到了很多建議，我也得到了，但是沒有人給我任何重要的建議，我可以分享。我從自己的經(jīng)歷中得到的最好的建議是“不要對別人期望太高”。如果你為某人做了好事，那就不要指望會報答你。生活不是一個總是平等的給予和索取的商業(yè)交易。如果我們這么想，那么我們只會傷害自己。所以，無論你想做什么，無論是幫助別人還是做其他事情，都要用心去做，不要期望得到同樣的回報。
“If you don't have little bit of perv inside you then you are not going learn anything”
“Hard work, hard work and hard work is the only way for success but one obstacles still stands it's way is bull headed approach, you should be able to adapt according to the situation while doing the hardwork”
“This is not a perfect world, this is not a grey world either, reality is consist of black, white, grey and unexplained, unseen colors, remember this world isn't bad either because otherwise it would become a perfectly bad world”
“Don't be a good guy or a bad guy just be a realistic adaptable guy”
“Good and bad is a theory created by human beings to explain the world around them most simplistically, this reality is way more complex than any theory”
“A little bit arrogance is a good thing, it will help you get yourself up when you are completely down and out”
“Don't have a single role model because that person isn't perfect, otherwise he or she would become God, open your eyes and ears and take things from people which are useful to you, the more people here, the better it is for you”
“Don't think about things that is beyond your control instead concentrate on things that you can control”
“If you want to be mentally strong and confident then don't depend on other people, do everything by yourself and I mean everything”
“Do you want to know the secret of killer instinct? It is fitness. The more you conditioned your body, the more unending energy you have which invariably would help you want to win everytime without getting tired”
如果你內(nèi)心不是執(zhí)著的，那你就什么也學(xué)不到；
努力工作是取得成功的唯一途徑，但有一個障礙仍然存在，那就是固執(zhí)的方法，在努力工作的同時，你應(yīng)該能夠適應(yīng)形勢
這不是一個完美的世界，這也不是一個灰色的世界，現(xiàn)實(shí)是由黑、白、灰和無法解釋的、看不見的顏色組成的，記住這個世界也不壞，否則它會變成一個完美的壞世界；
不要做好人或壞人，做一個現(xiàn)實(shí)的人；
好與壞是人類創(chuàng)造的一種理論，用來最簡單地解釋周圍的世界，這種現(xiàn)實(shí)比任何理論都要復(fù)雜得多；
有點(diǎn)自大是件好事，當(dāng)你完全情緒低落時，它會幫助你振作起來；
不要去想你無法控制的事情，而要把注意力集中在你可以控制的事情上；
如果你想變得堅強(qiáng)自信，那就不要依賴別人，一切都要自己做，我是說一切；
你想知道殺手本能的秘密嗎？這就是健身。你的身體鍛煉得越好，你就越有無窮的精力，這無一例外地會幫助你贏得每一次比賽而不會感到疲倦。