關(guān)于生活,人人都應(yīng)該知道的一件事是什么?
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If you are at rockbottom, don’t fret. The only way to move from there is by going forward.
Your partner might have broken up with you. Your parents might be disappointed in you. Your best friend is probably pissed off with you over something silly. Your boss calls you at 10 pm telling you that you did not do the job right. You feel like a complete mess. You feel that your life is at rockbottom. You don’t know what to do.
Take this time as a blessing in disguise. The day you hit rockbottom might be your worst, but it will only get better. Your rockbottom day probably made you go to sleep in a pool of tears. The next day will be characterised by you feeling lighter because you shed those tears. The following day will be characterised by you being fed of feeling like a mess and going to the gym to feel better. The day after that will be characterised by you loving your workout, followed by going on a drive with some amazing music.
Look at Day 4. Much better than Day 1 right?
I know how this works because I have been through it. So you my dear friend, if you believe you have hit rockbottom, embrace it. You are only going to get better and better!
如果你處于低谷,不要煩惱,從低谷走出來的唯一方法就是向前走。
你的伴侶可能跟你分手了,你的父母可能對你失望,你最好的朋友可能會因?yàn)橐恍┯薮赖氖虑樯愕臍猓愕睦习蹇赡茉谕砩?0點(diǎn)給你打電話指責(zé)你工作做得不對,你覺得自己一團(tuán)糟,你覺得你的生活已經(jīng)跌入谷底,你不知道該怎么辦。
換個視角來看待這段時間,塞翁失馬焉知非福,你跌到谷底的那一天可能是你最糟糕的一天,但之后只會變得更好,你跌入谷底的那一天可能讓你含著淚水中入睡,而第二天你會因?yàn)榱飨逻@些眼淚而感到輕松,接下來的一天,你會感覺一團(tuán)糟,去健身房鍛煉下,感覺好一些,再接下來的一天,你會聽上一些美妙的音樂,開車去兜風(fēng)。
到第四天再看看,比第一天好多了,對吧?
我知道這是怎么回事,因?yàn)槲医?jīng)歷過,所以你,我親愛的朋友,如果你認(rèn)為你已經(jīng)跌到了谷底,那就擁抱它吧,你只會變得越來越好!
15 Things Everyone Should Know About How to Live a Happy Life
#1 Be yourself. As I mentioned above, learning to be yourself should be the highest priority in your life. In order to be happy, you have to be comfortable with who you are. Everyone should know that they’re unique and amazing as is. Strive to let your true self shine every chance you get.
#2 Let go of negative thoughts. If you think down about yourself all the time, you’re going to feel bad. Those negative thoughts will penetrate through to your everyday life and it’ll be hard to be happy. This is crucial for living a happy life.
#3 Get rid of negative people. This is by far the most important of all the things everyone should know. If there is someone in your life who is dragging you down, get rid of them. Cut them out. Never let that negativity stay in your life. When you have someone who’s always ruining your happiness, they shouldn’t be around.
#4 Never apologize for your passions. Unless your passions are harmful to yourself or others, never apologize for them. You love what you love. No matter what someone says or thinks about the things you’re passionate about, never stray from them. Being passionate about something is essential for a happy life.
#5 Don’t compromise your values. Your values are who you are at your core. They’re what make you, you. That means you can never compromise them. No matter what or who for, don’t. If you lose sight of your values and the things that are important to you on such a deep level, you lose yourself and your happiness.
關(guān)于如何過上幸福的生活每個人都應(yīng)該知道的15件事
#1 做自己
正如我上面提到的,學(xué)會做自己應(yīng)該是你生活中最重要的優(yōu)先事項(xiàng),為了獲得幸福,你必須對自己的身份感到滿意,每個人都應(yīng)該知道,自己是獨(dú)一無二的,是令人驚嘆的,努力讓你的真實(shí)自我在每一次機(jī)會中閃耀。
#2 放棄消極的想法
如果你一直在想自己的壞事,你就會感覺很糟糕。這些消極的想法會滲透到你的日常生活中,你就很難快樂起來。這對過上幸福生活至關(guān)重要。
#3 擺脫消極的人
這是迄今為止每個人都應(yīng)該知道的事情中最重要的。如果你的生活中有人拖累你,擺脫他們,把他們趕走,永遠(yuǎn)不要讓這種消極情緒留在你的生活中,當(dāng)一個人總是毀掉你的幸福,他就不應(yīng)該出現(xiàn)在你身邊。
#4 永遠(yuǎn)不要為你的激情道歉
除非你的激情對自己或他人有害,否則永遠(yuǎn)不要為它們道歉,愛你所愛,不管別人對你所熱衷的事情怎么說或怎么想,永遠(yuǎn)不要偏離它們,對某事充滿熱情是過上幸福生活的必要條件。
#5 不要在價值觀上妥協(xié)
你的價值觀是你的核心,它們是你之所以成為你的原因,這意味著你永遠(yuǎn)不能妥協(xié),不管是為了什么或誰,都不要,如果你忽視了你的價值觀和對你來說如此重要的東西,你就會失去自己,失去幸福。
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#7 Do something just for yourself every week. You may not think this is essential for your happiness, but I promise it is. With life, we get so caught up in work and doing things for others that we often neglect ourselves.
You need to go out and do something to make you happy at least once a week. Whether that’s just seeing a movie by yourself or getting your nails done, pampering yourself is a must.
#8 Don’t apologize for your beliefs. What you believe in is super important to keeping you happy. One of the things everyone should know in order to live a happy life is that they can’t apologize for those beliefs. If they’re moral and don’t harm you or anyone else, hold firm with them.
#9 Stop comparing yourself and your life to others. Everyone does this. There isn’t a soul out there who has never compared themselves to someone else. But it’s still horrible for your happiness. Nothing good will come from looking at what someone else has and you don’t. Appreciate what you have.
#10 Trust your intuition. You know that gut feeling you often ignore? Stop ignoring it. We all have an intuition for a reason. Humans evolved successfully because of this intuition. If you believe something is wrong or too good to be true, it probably is. Trust your gut and your life will be happier.
#6 尊重他人
你可能沒有意識到尊重他人對你的幸福有多重要,但這絕對是每個人都應(yīng)該知道的事情之一,當(dāng)你尊重別人的時候,別人也會尊重你,這也意味著要做一個好人,懂得如何正確對待別人,當(dāng)你尊重他人時,你會更珍惜自己。
#7 每周為自己做一些事情
你可能不認(rèn)為這對你的幸福至關(guān)重要,但我保證這很重要。在生活中,我們太專注于工作和為他人做事,為此所困擾以至于我們常常忽略了自己。你需要走出去,每周至少做一次讓自己開心的事情,無論是看一場電影,還是去做指甲,寵愛自己是必須的。
#8 不要為你的信仰道歉
你的信仰對于保持你的快樂非常重要,為了過上幸福的生活,每個人都應(yīng)該知道的一件事是,人不能為信仰道歉,如果你的信仰是道德的,不會傷害你或其他人,那就堅守它們。
#9 不要拿自己和自己的生活與別人比較
每個人都會這么做,沒有哪個人從來沒有拿自己和別人比較過,但這對你的幸福來說仍然是可怕的,盯著別人有什么而你沒有什么,不會有好結(jié)果,我們應(yīng)當(dāng)感激我們所擁有的。
#10 相信你的直覺
你知道你經(jīng)常忽略的直覺嗎?不要忽視它,我們每個人都有自己的直覺,因?yàn)檫@種直覺,人類成功地進(jìn)化了,如果你認(rèn)為某些事情是錯誤的或者好得不像是真的,那么它很可能就是錯的、就是不真實(shí)的,相信你的直覺,你的生活會更快樂。
#12 Learn that it’s okay to say no. You don’t have to always please someone. You don’t exist for the purpose of pleasing others and making them like you. Learn when to say no and that it’s actually okay to say no. You will be much happier in life this way.
#13 Eat healthily and exercise regularly. This is definitely one of the things everyone should know and actually DOES know, but don’t often follow. You only have one body. One life. You need to start treating yourself better. Not only will you just feel better from the inside out, but it’ll give you a longer life.
#14 Gain perspective. I think we all bitch and moan about our lives too much. We all complain about things that we can actually change. Think about other people who can’t change their misfortune. When you put your life into perspective, you realize that there’s really a lot more to be happy about than there is to be mad at. This is definitely one of the best things everyone should know that can change lives.
#15 When you love someone, tell them. I’m not just talking about a significant other. You have friends and family that I know you don’t say this to enough. Expressing your love for others can actually make you feel really happy and complete. In order to have a happy life, spread that love around and you’ll receive a lot more in return.
#11 知道何時原諒和忘記
我并不是說每次原諒和忘記都會讓你快樂,但學(xué)會何時原諒和忘記會讓你快樂,在某些時候,你必須接受道歉并繼續(xù)前進(jìn),對某個人或某個情況保持這種消極的感覺是有害的。
#12 學(xué)會說 "不 "
你不必總是取悅別人,你存在的目的不是為了取悅他人讓他們喜歡你,學(xué)會何時說 "不",說 "不 "其實(shí)是可以的,這樣,你的生活會更快樂。
#13 健康飲食,定期鍛煉
這絕對是每個人都應(yīng)該知道并且確實(shí)知道的事情之一,但并不經(jīng)常為人遵循,你只有一個身體,你只有一條命,你需要開始更好地對待自己,這樣不僅會讓你從內(nèi)到外感覺更好,而且會讓你活得更長久。
#14 換個角度看周圍世界
我覺得我們都太愛抱怨自己的生活,我們都在抱怨那些我們實(shí)際上可以改變的事情,想想其他人,他們無法改變自己的不幸,當(dāng)你正確看待你的生活時,你就會意識到,值得高興的事情真的比值得生氣的事情多得多,這絕對是每個人都應(yīng)該知道的可以改變生活的最好事情之一。
#15 當(dāng)你愛一個人時,告訴他/她
我說的不僅僅是某個重要的人,你有朋友和家人,我知道你對他們說這些還不夠,表達(dá)你對他人的愛實(shí)際上可以使你感到真正的快樂和完整,為了擁有幸福的生活,把這種愛傳播出去,你會收到更多的回報。
As soon as we gain maturity and become aware of the world, every now and then we start thinking about questions like this. Surprisingly, instead of all the advancements mankind has made in all the fields, there are no definitive answers to questions like this. So, I will share with you my take on this -
Life is a journey and we all are just travelers in this world.
The purpose of life is not to own the fanciest car or get famous or any worldly thing you can think of. These all are the materialistic worldly things which can give you a moment of joy in your journey.
Your time in this world is limited. You are just a visitor here. So, have as many adventures as possible.
The only true feeling in this world is Love. All other feelings are just reaction to some thing. Love is omnipresent.
Thus, most important thing in your life is to love yourself. You can only love others if you love yourself.
Its alright to feel sad sometimes. No matter how difficult things seem have patience and keep loving yourself.
Your life is just a pathway created by your decisions. You are the one who has control over your life. Never let anyone else control your life at any point of time. Make choices which you will cherish not the ones you will regret.
一旦我們變得成熟,開始意識到這個世界,我們就會時不時地開始思考這樣的問題,令人驚訝的是,盡管人類在所有領(lǐng)域都取得了巨大的進(jìn)步,但對這樣的問題卻沒有明確的答案,所以,我將與你們分享我個人對這一點(diǎn)的看法:
# 生命是一個旅程,我們都只是這個世界的旅行者。
# 生活的目的不是擁有最豪華的汽車,或者出名,或者你能想到的任何世俗的東西,這些都是物質(zhì)的、世俗的,可以給你的旅程帶來片刻的歡愉。
# 你在這個世界上的時間是有限的,你只是這里的一個過客,所以,盡可能多的去冒險、探索。
# 這個世界上唯一真實(shí)的感覺就是愛,所有其他的感覺只是對某些事情的反應(yīng),愛無處不在,因此,你生命中最重要的事情就是愛你自己,你只有愛你自己才能愛別人。
# 有時候感到悲傷是正常的,不管事情看起來有多么困難,都要有耐心,并且要愛自己。
# 你的生活只是一條由你的決定創(chuàng)造出來的道路,你才是那個掌控自己生活的人,不要讓任何人在任何時候控制你的生活,做出你會珍惜的選擇,而不是你會后悔的選擇。
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Everybody should know their worth:Everybody should know that if they work hard,they can reach their goals,they are efficient enough to do so. Nobody is superior or inferior than other. We all are amazing in our own unique ways. We should never look down upon ourselves.
Self-care or self-love isn’t selfish:All of us should love and care for ourselves,no matter what.Self-love and self-care is of utmost importance for our health,confidence and mental well-being,nothing is wrong or selfish about it.
Being honest is great but you need to convey it in a proper manner:”Honesty without tact is cruelty.”Being honest is a very good quality but if you are not conveying it in a proper and polite way,you are just being mean.
Feminism is all about equality:Real meaning of feminism:”the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes” and what people assume it to be:”hate and injustice against men by females”.The women that believes that women are more superior than men and is a sexiest is to be considered as a ‘feminazi’ and not a ‘feminist’.I have seen a lot of people confusing between these two very different terms.
Everybody is beautiful:Beauty is subjective.If somebody calls you ugly,it is their ‘opinion’ not a ‘universal fact’.Everybody is beautiful in their own unique way,it just depends on the way we perceive them.The beauty standards of society are ugly,not the people.
1. 每個人都應(yīng)該知道自己的價值:
每個人都應(yīng)該知道,如果努力工作,就能實(shí)現(xiàn)自己的目標(biāo),你的效率足以做到這一點(diǎn),沒有人比別人更優(yōu)秀或更低劣,我們都以自己獨(dú)特的方式活著,都很了不起,我們永遠(yuǎn)不應(yīng)該看不起自己。
2. 自我照顧或自愛并不自私:
我們所有人都應(yīng)該愛護(hù)和照顧自己,無論發(fā)生什么,自愛和自我照顧對我們的健康、自信和心理健康至關(guān)重要,這既不是錯誤,也不是自私。
3. 誠實(shí)很好,但你需要以適當(dāng)?shù)姆绞絺鬟_(dá)它:
“沒有技巧的誠實(shí)是殘忍的”誠實(shí)是一種非常好的品質(zhì),但是如果你沒有以恰當(dāng)和禮貌的方式表達(dá)出來,你就只是刻薄。
4. 女權(quán)主義的重點(diǎn)在于平等:
女權(quán)主義的真正含義: “在性別平等的基礎(chǔ)上倡導(dǎo)婦女權(quán)利”,而往往有人認(rèn)為它是: “女性對男性的仇恨和不公正”,那些認(rèn)為女人比男人更優(yōu)越、女人才最性感的人是”女拳”(feminazi),而不是”女權(quán)”(feminist),我見過很多人把這兩個完全不同的術(shù)語搞混。
5. 每個人都是美麗的:
美麗是主觀的,如果有人說你丑陋,那是他們的“意見”,而不是“普遍事實(shí)”,每個人都有自己獨(dú)特的美,這取決于我們?nèi)绾慰创?,丑陋的是社會的審美?biāo)準(zhǔn),而不是人。
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Self-control ability
Control the things we can control.
Back when basic survival was difficult, practicing the kind of self-control we need today wasn't always necessary. We'd have to hunt for our food if we wanted to eat, and we'd eat what we could find in order to live. Eventually we figured out that this isn't the most efficient way to work and invented one of the biggest life hacks of all time: agriculture. Suddenly there was food when we needed it, and what was once a constant fight for survival became (relatively) simple. Readily-available food made it possible for a surplus of certain foods which made it possible to overeat. It took a long time for this to become a serious problem, but today we face a problem of excess consumption. Shifts such as this helped create a serious need for self-control in new aspects of our life. For example, computers and other personal technology made all kinds of work much easier, but their side effects include tech addiction, shortered life spans from too much sitting, and even a few pesky etiquette issues. As technology continues to satisfy our desires—for anything from food to information—we have to practice self-control in new and different ways. The problem is, this isn't easy to do. One’s greatest challenge is to control oneself.
Developing Self-Control
1) First we need to identify in what areas of our life we need to gain more self-control. Where do we find ourself lacking in self-control?
Possible areas could be:
Eating.Shopping.Drinking.Work.Gambling.Smoking.Obsessive behavior
自我控制能力
控制我們可以控制的事情。
回溯到人類基本生存狀況困難的時期,我們今天所需要的那種自我控制并不總是必要的,如果我們想吃東西,我們就得去獵取食物,為了生活,我們會吃我們能找到的東西,最終我們發(fā)現(xiàn)這不是最有效的方式,于是我們發(fā)明了有史以來最大的生存技巧之一:農(nóng)業(yè)。
突然間,在我們需要的時候就有了食物,曾經(jīng)為生存而不斷奮斗的事情變得(相對)簡單,容易獲得的食物使某些食物過剩成為可能,使暴飲暴食成為可能,過了很長時間,這才成為一個嚴(yán)重的問題,但今天我們面臨著過度消費(fèi)的問題,諸如此類的轉(zhuǎn)變有助于在我們生活的新方面產(chǎn)生對自我控制的嚴(yán)重需求,例如,計算機(jī)和其他技術(shù)使各種工作變得更加容易,但其副作用包括技術(shù)成癮,長時間久坐而縮短了壽命,甚至還有一些討厭的禮儀問題,隨著技術(shù)繼續(xù)滿足我們的欲望,從食物到信息,我們必須以新的和不同的方式進(jìn)行自我控制,問題是,這并不容易做到,一個人最大的挑戰(zhàn)是如何控制自己。
培養(yǎng)自制力:
1)首先,我們需要確定我們在生活的哪些方面需要獲得更多的自制力,我們發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在哪些領(lǐng)域缺乏自制力?
可能的領(lǐng)域有:
飲食、購物、飲酒、工作、賭博、吸煙、強(qiáng)迫性的行為
3) Identify the thoughts and beliefs that push us to behave in uncontrolled manner.
Once we have applied self-control to numerous areas of our life (if we were previously very undercontrolled), we will hopefully begin to become attuned to where and how delay of gratification can increase our life satisfaction. As we successively apply self-control to numerous thought processes and life behaviours, we will hopefully also begin to see some life improvements.
Those who are highly impulsive tend to think only in the short-term, or about immediate reward. For example, a typically impulsive individual might think, "l am happier when I eat chocolate so it must be good to eat it.” Developing more self-control means learning to consider the bigger picture with regards to your decisions. And eventually – if we develop self-control with regards to enough areas of our life, applying self-control will begin to become more automatic, and we will also be able to see much more clearly which decision will bring about the highest level of life satisfaction.
Self control is not some kind of negative and limiting behavior, as some people might think. When it is used wisely and with common sense, it becomes one of the most important tools for self improvement and for achieving success.
2)嘗試識別缺乏控制的情緒,如憤怒、不滿、不快樂、怨恨、自滿或恐懼。
3) 識別促使我們行為失控的思想和信念。
一旦我們將自我控制應(yīng)用于我們生活的許多領(lǐng)域,我們將有希望開始適應(yīng)在哪方面以及如何延遲滿足可以增加我們的生活滿意度,當(dāng)我們陸續(xù)將自我控制應(yīng)用于眾多的思維過程和生活行為時,我們也將有望做到一些生活上的改善。
那些高度沖動的人往往只做短期思考,或只考慮眼前的回報,例如,一個典型的沖動型個人可能會想,"我吃巧克力時更快樂,所以吃巧克力一定是好的",培養(yǎng)更多的自制力意味著學(xué)會在做決定時考慮大局,最終,如果我們在生活中足夠多的領(lǐng)域發(fā)展自制力,應(yīng)用自制力將會變得更加自動,我們也將能夠更清楚地看到哪個決定將帶來最高水平的生活滿意度。
自我控制并不像一些人可能認(rèn)為的那樣,是單純的某種消極和限制性的行為,當(dāng)它被明智地使用并符合常識時,它就成為自我改善和獲得成功的最重要工具之一。
Nothing is permanent, everything vanishes one day
Karma is real if you do good you will get in in return and same for the bad.
Love / marriage can turn your life into a heaven or hell so choose wisely.
Knowledge will never be wasted so learn as much as you can.
Eat healthy if not your body will pay back for it soon.
Spend time with your self and learn to love and reward yourself so even if the world leaves you you got your back.
If your are struggling now. Trust me everything is gonna be okay. Have faith and work towards it.
If you feel everything is f’d up and you are nowhere take a time out from everything and figure out what's wrong by yourself.
Learn to do our things alone. Cooking,washing etc
Do not go after God all the time cz if the God is there for everyone every human will be living in hotels and no one will be starving. Have faith in your self and work towards it. Just believe the reality. You can climb up to the highest.
Make few good friends it will turn your life beautiful.
Travel enjoy and take risks!
. 沒有什么是永恒的,一切都會在某一天消失
. 因果報應(yīng)是真實(shí)的,如果你做了好事,你會獲得回報,做了壞事會遭到報應(yīng)。
. 愛情/婚姻可以把你的生活變成天堂或地獄,所以要明智地選擇。
. 知識永遠(yuǎn)不會被浪費(fèi),所以盡可能多地學(xué)習(xí)。
. 健康飲食,如果不健康,那么你的身體很快就會為此付出代價。
. 花點(diǎn)時間獨(dú)處,學(xué)會愛自己,獎勵自己,這樣即使世界離開了你,自己也會支持自己。
. 如果你現(xiàn)在在掙扎,相信我,一切都會好起來的,要有信心,朝著這個方向努力。
. 如果你覺得一切都糟糕透頂,你無處可去,那就抽出一點(diǎn)時間來想想自己到底哪里出了問題。
. 學(xué)會獨(dú)自做事,比如做飯、洗衣等等
. 不要總追隨上帝,因?yàn)槿绻嬗猩系?,每個人都會安居樂業(yè),沒有人會挨餓,要對自己有信心,并為之努力,相信現(xiàn)實(shí)吧,你可以攀爬到最高處。
. 結(jié)交一些好朋友,這會使你的生活變得美好。
. 享受旅行,承擔(dān)風(fēng)險!
That you get out of life, exactly what you put into it!…..
And that the bonus comes when you continually strive to put more into it!
Life does not come up to you, tap you on the shoulder and say:”. iI have decided to make you a millionaire, give you a prestgious place in society, automatically make you a super parent of accomplished loving children, feed you the finest cusine, or make you happy!”
Each of those gifts are earned with effort, compassion, commitment,, and blood sweat, trial and tears!
It is the resilience and determination that you bring to the adventures, hopes- gone-awry, misadventures, difficulties and griefs, that shape what you get out of life!, and how you get it.
The truly happy people, who really have success and happiness in their lives, have risen above the worst that life has dished up, triumphed over adversity, tried, failed, picked themselves up, and started all over again. They have not whined nor withdrawn.They have shared the fruits of their labours, forgiven their enemies, honoured and cherished their loved ines…. And carried on…..regardless!
A sapling grows to be a great oak, rooted deep and strong, from weathering the storms, absorbing the Sunshine and wintering the cold and dark.
We should all emulate that sapling!
你從生活中得到的東西,正是你投入的東西!.....
而當(dāng)你不斷努力投入更多的時候,就會有更多的收獲!
生活不會走到你面前,拍拍你的肩膀說:"我決定讓你成為百萬富翁,讓你在社會上有一席之地,讓你自然而然地成為有成就、有愛心的超級家長,給你最美味的食物,或者讓你快樂!”
上述的每一份“恩賜”都是用努力、同情、承諾、血汗、考驗(yàn)和淚水換來的!
正是你在冒險、希望、不幸、困難和悲傷中帶來的韌性和決心,塑造了你從生活中得到的東西!
那些真正快樂的人,他們的生活中真正擁有成功和幸福,他們克服了生活中最糟糕的事情,戰(zhàn)勝了逆境,嘗試,失敗,振作起來,然后重新開始,他們沒有抱怨,也沒有退縮,他們分享了他們的勞動成果,原諒了他們的敵人,尊重和珍視他們所愛的人....一往無前....!
一棵小樹苗長成一棵大橡樹,堅強(qiáng)不屈,經(jīng)受住了暴風(fēng)雨的考驗(yàn),吸收了陽光,度過了寒冷和黑暗——我們都應(yīng)該效仿這棵小樹苗!
First thing is “Hardship”.
Yes, you read it right. Due to nuclear families in middle class or above people, extra care given to their children and the facilities provided to their children beyond the capacity of the parents, children hardly know the hardships and the difficulties.
Due to this the present generation kids are highly pampered and always unsatisfied. They feel that the things they wish should come to them.
When they start working and earning independently they find any short comings and difficulties unbearable as they had never come across these difficulties. They feel depressed.
Someone who has gone through the hardships and seen the difficulties can relate what is happiness, how it can be enjoyed. How little things bring happiness.
首先要知道的第一件事就是 "困難"。
是的,你沒看錯,由于中產(chǎn)階級或中產(chǎn)以上的核心家庭對孩子的額外照顧和為孩子提供的設(shè)施超出了父母的能力,孩子們幾乎不懂什么是艱苦和困難。
因此,這一代的孩子被高度寵愛,總是不滿足,他們覺得他們想要的東西應(yīng)該自動來到他們身邊。
當(dāng)他們開始獨(dú)立工作和掙錢時,他們發(fā)現(xiàn)任何艱苦和困難都是無法忍受的,因?yàn)樗麄儚奈从龅竭^這些困難,他們感到很沮喪。
一個經(jīng)歷過艱難困苦的人才能體會到什么是幸福,如何享受幸福。