如果我的男朋友為了另一個女孩離開了我，我該怎么辦（上）
What should I do if my boyfriend left me for another girl?
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網(wǎng)友：等一下。你認(rèn)識他才兩天，他不是你的男朋友?聽起來你的意思是，在你約會的時候他已經(jīng)計劃和別人結(jié)婚了，而你兩天前發(fā)現(xiàn)了，而他對你還像個男朋友一樣。如果是這樣的話，你應(yīng)該接受他已經(jīng)走了的事實，并感謝他沒有對你造成比現(xiàn)在更多的傷害。世界上有不誠實的人，你的前任是他們中的一個，這完全不是你的錯.....
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What should I do if my boyfriend left me for another girl?
如果我的男朋友為了另一個女孩離開了我，我該怎么辦?
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富蘭克林·沃，《兩人以上:倫理多角戀實用指南》的合著者
He was not your boyfriend.
It sounds like what you mean is he was planning to get married to someone else while you were dating, and you found out two days ago, while he was still acting like a boyfriend.
If that’s the case, what you do is accept that he’s gone, and be thankful he didn’t do more damage than he did. There are dishonest people in the world, and it’s totally not your fault that your ex is one of them. Now that you’re in this shitty position, there’s really nothing you can do except accept that he was shitty to you and let him go. That’s not much of an answer, but it’s the only one there is, I’m afraid.
等一下。你認(rèn)識他才兩天，他不是你的男朋友?
聽起來你的意思是，在你約會的時候他已經(jīng)計劃和別人結(jié)婚了，而你兩天前發(fā)現(xiàn)了，而他對你還像個男朋友一樣。如果是這樣的話，你應(yīng)該接受他已經(jīng)走了的事實，并感謝他沒有對你造成比現(xiàn)在更多的傷害。世界上有不誠實的人，你的前任是他們中的一個，這完全不是你的錯。現(xiàn)在你處于這種糟糕的境地，除了接受他對你不好的事實，讓他走，你真的什么也做不了。這不是一個很好的答案，但恐怕是唯一的答案。
Shubhandu Shukla，Paytm高級軟件工程師（2016年至今）
If still you are reading than i hope you want to cope up with your situation and want to do better.
Fact is he left you for another girl. Dont make it an ego issue that how could some one left you. Just accept the fact he left you. Even if he comes back there is always a possibility he may leave you again.
Give some time to yourself. You are just 20 years old. Focus on your academics, read books, spent time with your real friends. The more you think about him the more chances are that you get into depression.
Remember if someone leaves you remember he was not made for you. God have much better plans.
I mulyself have been in a 8 year long relationship. But i was left alone. I cried and cried. Was in sever depression for months. Couldnt tell anything to my family and friends. But slowly and gradually i am moving ahead. The problem is even today every now and than i remember her and that pain is so much so that cant be expressed. Yet she doesnt care and is happy in her life.
So from my exp dont blame yourself. Give a break. Dont get into relationship quickly just to put him down or make him jealous.
Also never try to break other persons heart because your heart is broken.
如果你認(rèn)為在我的回答中，我會告訴你一些技巧或竅門，你可以通過這些技巧或竅門讓男朋友回來，請不要再讀下去。
如果你仍在閱讀，我希望你能應(yīng)對你的處境，只是想做得更好點。
事實是他為了另一個女孩離開了你。不要把一個人如何離開你當(dāng)作一個自我問題。接受他離開你的事實。即使他回來了，他也有可能再次離開你。
給自己一些時間。你才20歲。專注于你的學(xué)術(shù)，讀書，和你真正的朋友在一起。你越想他，你就越有可能陷入抑郁。
記住，如果有人離開你，請記住他不是為你而生的，上帝對你有更好的安排。
我自己已經(jīng)談了8年的戀愛了。但只剩下我一個人。我哭了又哭，幾個月來一直處于嚴(yán)重的抑郁狀態(tài)。我不能告訴我的家人和朋友。但慢慢地我在前進(jìn)。問題是，即使是今天，我仍然不時地想起她，那種痛苦是如此難以表達(dá)。但她并不在乎，生活得很幸福
所以從我的經(jīng)驗來看，不要責(zé)怪你自己。休息一下，不要為了貶低他或讓他嫉妒而迅速建立關(guān)系。
也不要因為你的心已經(jīng)碎了就試圖去傷害別人的心。
Neha Tripathi在司法機構(gòu)工作
It's time ! You know it when you have done every possible thing to make things right and nothing worked for you.
He's not worth it! You realize you are worth much more than you were willing to settle with.
Maybe you just aren't meant to be! You see breakup isn't just about the other person being a bad person. What if he's a good person and you still are not able to work it out. It's probably because the line of thought is very different or in simple words,you both are incompatible. And all the time you felt he was just perfect for you? That was the time you were still uncovering his true self or probably yours too.
Now you would will be wondering why I wrote that whole story,when your question was completely different .
嗨。你剛才問的這個問題，很多人都問過。這是人性的一部分，我們可以給別人最好的建議，而不是自己。你知道人們常說愛情讓人盲目，但我不敢茍同。但內(nèi)心深處,你知道,無論你讀多少文章,多少勵志視頻你看,你讀多少自助書,無論有多少人給你建議你將無法走出來,直到你自己意識到。
是時候!當(dāng)你做了所有可能的事情去做正確的事情，但沒有任何事情對你有效的時候，你就知道了。
他不值得你這樣做!你意識到你的價值遠(yuǎn)比你愿意接受的要高。
也許你是命中注定的！你知道分手不僅僅是因為另一個人是壞人。如果他是好人，而你仍然無法解決怎么辦。這可能是因為思維方式非常不同，或者簡單地說，你們兩個都是不相容的。而你一直覺得他對你來說就是完美的嗎？這就是原因那時候你仍然在揭露他的真實自我，或者可能還有你的。
現(xiàn)在你可能想知道為什么我寫了整個故事，而你的問題完全不同。
But just when I was writing this answer,I realized something.
Babe you are just 20. You haven't even seen anything yet . There is so much for you to explore on a sole basis. Maybe he has reached the right age to get married and you are still very young. And he can't wait for you and doesn't want you to get married to him at this age. Maybe he's just trying to protect you. But yes no denial,that he must have communicated it to you clearly and put everything on the table for you. Just playing tricks behind a good face isn't the right thing to do.
Final words : dont listen to any of us. Listen to you. What do you want to do at the age of 20?
Weep all day for the one who is almost gone and is going to probably not give a rat ass about you . You shut down everyone,cut every one Lose for this one person who was not even a chapter worth remembering. Make the worse of this beautiful life that is given to you.
Or you can accept it and grieve until you are done. You just let it all completely out of your system and look forward to what life's offering you . This is the most appropriate age to do something with your life. Love isn't enough to spend a lifetime, there are several other things as well.
你看，你知道的。他不是我的真命天子。如果他在生活中有了你之后，還在尋找其他的女孩和選擇。他愛你顯然沒有你愛他愛锝得那么深。至于她媽媽的問題，如果他愛你，他會愿意做任何可能的事來和你在一起，積極抗?fàn)?，和你在一起，但他沒有。
但就在我寫這個答案的時候，我意識到了一些事情。
寶貝，你才20歲。你甚至還沒有看到任何東西。有太多的東西需要你獨自探索。也許他已經(jīng)到了結(jié)婚的合適年齡，而你還很年輕。他不能等你，也不希望你在這個年齡和他結(jié)婚。也許他只是想保護(hù)你。但不容否認(rèn)的是，他必須清楚地告訴你，并為你擺明一切。在一張善良的臉后面玩把戲是不對的。
最后一句話：不要聽我們?nèi)魏稳说?。?0歲時想做什么？
為一個即將離去的人哭泣一整天，而這個人可能不會關(guān)心你大。你把所有人對你的關(guān)心都拒之門外，就為了這個不值得被記住的人，他讓你的美好生活變得更糟。
或者你可以接受它，一直悲傷下去。你只要把這一切都釋放出來，期待生活給你的一切。這是你一生中最適合做某事的年齡。愛是不夠支撐度過一生的，還有其他幾件事也是如此
Arjun Khatri，任何關(guān)于愛的疑問都是歡迎的。
God just erased a wrong person from your life,he was meant to teach you something. You probably learnt something. Now he is gone. The boy who wasn’t worth trusting is gone. The boy who wasn’t good is gone,the boy who wasn’t worth giving heart to is gone.
Now that you have learnt something,it would be helpful for the rest of your life. Remember everything happens for a reason.
One day you will surely get the right one,your prince,and that will be the moment you would realise why this guy had to leave. Because God has already decided yor soulmate.
So thats awesome that he left.
Because you deserve better,and he doesn’t deserve you.
No matter what happens in life,if you have a positive attitude,nothing seems to be stronger than you. Nothing can make you sad.
Remenber one last thing,
No matter what is the issue or the problem,it only depends on your perspective,whether you take it as a challenge,or you take it as a poor destiny.
Problems comes you the way you want it to.
If you see it in a positive way,it teaches you something and you don’t fear it.
But if you see it in a negative way,try to see it in positive,you yourself will notice the changes.
So don’t be sad,have faith in God,and hope for the best.
Because the beat is yet to come,and it is surely on its way.
God bless!:)
我認(rèn)為你應(yīng)該努力參加派對！
上帝只是從你的生活中抹去了一個錯誤的人，他本該教你一些東西。你可能學(xué)到了一些東西。現(xiàn)在他走了。那個不值得信任的男孩走了。不好的男孩不見了，不值得傾心的男孩不見了。
現(xiàn)在你已經(jīng)學(xué)到了一些東西，這將對你的余生有所幫助。記住每件事的發(fā)生都是有原因的。
總有一天你一定會找到合適的人、你的王子，那一刻你會意識到這家伙為什么要離開。因為上帝已經(jīng)決定了你的靈魂伴侶。
他走了，真是太棒了。
因為你配得上更好，而他配不上你。
無論生活中發(fā)生什么，如果你有一個積極的態(tài)度，沒有什么比你更強大，沒有什么能讓你難過。
記住最后一件事，
不管是什么問題，這只取決于你的觀點，你是把它當(dāng)作一個挑戰(zhàn)，還是把它當(dāng)作一個可憐的命運。
問題會以你想要的方式出現(xiàn)。
如果你以一種積極的方式看待它，它會教你一些東西，你不會害怕它。
但如果你從消極的角度看問題，試著從積極的角度看問題，你自己就會注意到變化
所以，不要悲傷，要相信上帝，并期待最好的結(jié)果。
因為節(jié)奏還沒有到來，它肯定在路上。
上帝保佑！
Leave him.
He is a liar , cheater and a coward with a lack of integrity.
Why I'm giving these beautiful adjectives to him because:
He didn't tell you about the other girl himself. You got to know accidentally. What was he thinking ??? To directly give you his wedding invitation?
He still behaved like your boyfriend even after having a girl by his side to get married.
He told you that his mother doesn't like you. If he really loved you , he would have tried to convince his mother to see your good qualities.
He is a douchebag who still thinks that he can manipulate you and use you. Don't be naive . Leave him for your own good. Don't let him convince you that he is helpless .If he would have been serious for you, he wouldn't have behaved like you have mentioned.
I know my word seems harsh but you need to be tough to overcome this. No need to be weak. Stay strong. Move on .Build your career .
I hope you get the love you deserve.
All the best….
離開他。
他是一個騙子、背叛者和缺乏誠信的懦夫。
我之所以給他這些“漂亮”的形容詞是因為：
他沒有告訴你關(guān)于另一個女孩的事。你是偶然知道的。他在想什么？直接給你他的結(jié)婚請柬？
即使他身邊有個要結(jié)婚的女孩，他仍然表現(xiàn)得像你的男朋友。
他告訴你他媽媽不喜歡你。如果他真的愛你，他會試圖說服他的母親看到你的優(yōu)秀品質(zhì)。
他是個笨蛋，仍然認(rèn)為他可以操縱和利用你。別天真了，為了你自己也要離開他。不要聽信他讓你相信他是無助的。如果他對你是認(rèn)真的，他就不會像你說的那樣。
我知道我的話聽起來很苛刻，但你需要堅強來克服這一點。沒有必要軟弱，保持強大。繼續(xù)前進(jìn)，建立你的事業(yè)。
我希望你得到你應(yīng)得的愛。
祝你一切順利。
Krishange Bora，佐治亞州立大學(xué)研究生研究助理（2018年至今）
One of my very good friends fell in a similar scenario few years back. She was devastated beyond repair.
She blamed everything on her self. Doesn't it quite happen that when such an incident occurs people undergo low self esteem issues . Well she underwent too. It seemed to her that all the grief fell on to her .
BTW this jackass left her for someone not even 1 percent close to her . It kept her puzzled as to what she lacked to deserve this treatment being meted out to her.
However after this she turned her life around . She did not go around strategizing ways of taking revenge on him . She cut off all ties with him. She went on to do her masters in an ivy league college in USA and currently works with Google in mountain viewCalifornia.
Moral is that : success is the best revenge. Make your life the best you could make it to be . The people who truly love you will stay in it anyways.
我將在這里告訴你一個故事：
幾年前，我的一個非常好的朋友也遇到了類似的情況：她悲痛欲絕。
她把一切都?xì)w咎于自己。當(dāng)這樣的事情發(fā)生時，人們會經(jīng)歷自卑的問題，這不是很正常嗎?她也經(jīng)歷了。在她看來，所有的悲傷都落在她身上了
順便說一句，這個混蛋為了一個連她百分之一都比不了的人離開了她。這使她感到困惑，她缺少什么，不應(yīng)該得到這樣的待遇。
然而在這之后，她改變了她的生活。她沒有到處策劃報復(fù)他的方法。她斷絕了與他的一切聯(lián)系。她繼續(xù)在美國一所常春藤聯(lián)盟大學(xué)攻讀碩士學(xué)位，目前在加州的mountain Views與谷歌合作。
寓意是：成功是最好的復(fù)仇，讓你的生活盡你所能做到最好，真正愛你的人無論如何都會留在里面。
Move on. If your boyfriend left you to be with someone else he broke his promise to your relationship. To work at it and try. If he was doing those things he wouldn’t have let himself notice another girl. If he couldn’t try in the relationship then you two were never going to get anywhere. Just be happy it ended before it went on any longer. Don’t blame yourself because even if you were perfect, a guy who doesn’t try to improve and strengthen a relationship is not going to care because he’s not letting himself see and appreciate the real you.
While he’s there with his new girl “ who he is probably going to leave when the next girl comes around” just do your thang. Remember who you are and pity that poor girl for being with that douche.
Hang out with your friends. Meet new people.
繼續(xù)前進(jìn)。如果你的男朋友為了和別人在一起而離開你，他就違背了他對你們關(guān)系的承諾。如果他真心在乎你，他就不會讓自己注意到另一個女孩。如果他在這段關(guān)系中不努力那么你們倆就永遠(yuǎn)不會有任何進(jìn)展。高興它在繼續(xù)之前慶幸結(jié)束了。不要責(zé)怪自己，因為即使你很完美，一個不想改善和加強關(guān)系的男人也不會在意，因為他不會讓自己看到和欣賞真實的你。
當(dāng)他和他的新女友在一起時，“當(dāng)下一個女孩出現(xiàn)時，他很可能會離開她”，只要做你的事就行了。記住你是誰，可惜那個可憐的女孩和那個混蛋在一起。
和你的朋友出去玩。結(jié)識新朋友。
Sneh Soni，白手起家，自學(xué)成才
You should be lucky you got to know about him getting married else he could be using you for his selfish physical desires.
Let him go and move on. You are 20 years old. Pretty young to get into all these. You are still developing emotions in your mind. Focus on becoming a successful person instead of falling for such distractions.
Love is a wonderful feeling at your age but the mental and emotional scars that happen due to such events will affect your behavior for a lifetime.
Meditate to calm you mind and embrace your true nature of happiness.
不管你做什么，他都不會回來了。他已經(jīng)成年了，事實上他要結(jié)婚，在某種程度上也意味著，在某個時候，他背叛了你，但他不夠男人來告訴你一切都結(jié)束了，所以他把分手歸咎于他的母親。你可以和他爭論，但不能和他母親爭論。這是一個典型的印度男性，有虛假的自我，在真正的事情上就是個娘娘腔。
你應(yīng)該很幸運知道他結(jié)婚了，否則他會利用你來滿足他自私的生理欲望。
讓他走吧，繼續(xù)前進(jìn)。你20歲，很年輕。你的頭腦中仍在發(fā)展情緒。專注于成為一個成功的人，而不是沉迷于其中。
在你這個年齡，愛是一種美妙的感覺，但由于這些事件而產(chǎn)生的精神和情感創(chuàng)傷將影響你一生的行為。
冥想使你的頭腦平靜下來，擁抱你真正的幸福。
Leave him.
You don't deserve to be half important to someone .
Either he should be only yours or only hers.
Leave him for your own self respect.
You might find someone way better who won't give up on you no matter what his mother thinks.
離開他。
對某人來說，你的重要性連她一半都沒有。
他要么是你的，要么是她的。
為了你自己的自尊，離開他吧。
你可能會找到更好的人—不管他媽媽怎么想都不會放棄你人。
You realising this on the first place is a big deal. Let him go. You have a great life and future ahead. Do not stress over people who weren’t loyal from the beginning. Dont waste energy over this. Start afresh with yourself. Dont forget to love yourself.
你首先意識到這是一件重要的事。讓他走，你的人生很美好，前途無量。不要對從一開始就不忠誠的人施加壓力。不要在這上面浪費精力。重新開始，別忘了愛自己。
There is only one thing you can do.
Move on.
I am sorry for your heart break. This is a mess and it feels unbearable and cruel. You were wronged. But, the only thing you can do is try your best to sooth your heart and get back on your feet again. Have a good cry.. Nurse your broken heart for now. Please know if you want someone to talk to, you have your friends, your families and us at Quora too.
Let all of us help you to emerge whole from this situation. As for your ex, you need to forget him, throw him out of your life. Any feeling related to him is bad. Missing him, even being angry at him.
I hope with time you are able to move on from this guy. I wish you all the best.
你只能做一件事：繼續(xù)前進(jìn)。
我很抱歉讓你心碎了。這是一團(tuán)亂麻，讓人感到難以忍受和殘酷。你被冤枉了。但是，你唯一能做的就是盡你最大的努力安撫你的心靈，重新振作起來。好好哭一場吧。暫時照顧好你那顆破碎的心。如果你想找人聊天，請知道，你的朋友、家人和我們也在Quora上。
讓我們所有人幫助你們從這種情況中完整的走出來。至于你的前任，你需要忘記他，把他從你的生活中趕出去。任何與他有關(guān)的感覺都是不好的：想念他，甚至對他生氣。
我希望隨著時間的推移，你能夠離開這個家伙。我祝你一切順利。
Rajeev Srivastava，在戀愛中，探索愛情，學(xué)到了一些東西。
Do letting go is the best option if your boyfriend doesn't loves you?
You have already taken the First Step, i.e. realizing that your boy friend doesn't loves you.
Next Step: Salute him with your middle finger and walk away with dignity and self-respect keeping in mind that you are special.
Further Step: Do thank him for making you realize that he isn't worth you and your time.
Sleep peacefully at night :D
昨天剛剛回答了一個類似的問題。希望這對你有幫助！
如果你的男朋友不愛你，放手是最好的選擇？
你已經(jīng)邁出了第一步，即意識到你的男朋友并不愛你。
下一步：用你的中指向他致敬，帶著尊嚴(yán)和自尊離開，記住你是特別的，特別的人會找到一條通往你的路。
下一步：感謝他讓你意識到他不值得擁有你和你的時間。
晚上睡個安穩(wěn)覺。
At the very first place you still think he is worth it when you know he is not going to marry you and just tie a knot with someone he met on a marriage website.
Well my dear love is something which is a beautiful feeling and this guy is not worth it. If his mom doesn’t likes you he can convince her too. If there is a will there is always a way.
Be a wise person and kick him off because being with him will only give you headaches and stress and life full of sadness and worries as of now.
I know its hard to get over things but trust me you can do it.
Just believe in yourself you are just not another girl he can hook up with.
一開始，當(dāng)你知道他不會娶你，只是和他在婚姻網(wǎng)站上認(rèn)識的人結(jié)了婚，你仍然認(rèn)為他值得。
好吧，我親愛的，愛是一種美好的感覺，這家伙不值得。如果他媽媽不喜歡你，他也可以說服她：有志者事竟成。
做一個明智的人，把他踢開，因為和他在一起只會給你帶來頭痛和壓力，讓你的生活充滿悲傷和憂慮。
我知道克服困難很難，但相信我你能做到。
只要相信你自己，你就不是他能勾搭上的另一個女孩。
your boyfriend left you??. Celebrate it.Because you're very lucky to get to know about his character at the beginning itself.It seems his mind is not stable. Trust me, it happened for a reason. Be happy for it.I know it pains but he is not worthy to live with you. Best way of taking revenge over him is being very happy and pretending as nothing happened to you. You will get a good person for sure.
你男朋友離開了你？慶祝一下。因為你很幸運在一開始就了解了他的性格?？磥硭乃枷氩⒉环€(wěn)定。相信我，這是有原因的。我知道這很痛苦，但他不配和你生活在一起。對他進(jìn)行報復(fù)的最好辦法是讓自己非常高興，假裝什么也沒發(fā)生。你肯定會遇到一個好人。
A couple of questions here:
Have you known him for only two days? In that case, it's quite early to call him your boyfriend.
“Behaved completely like a bf”. It could be that he is actually being friendly with you. You might need to re-think on your perception of his actions.
In any case however, if a person doesn't want to be a part of your life, there is nothing you can do but to move on. The feelings you have for him may never go away, but eventually, you will be able to cherish those memories and be in a better place.
這里有幾個問題：
你認(rèn)識他才兩天嗎？那樣的話，現(xiàn)在就稱他為你的男朋友還為時過早。
“表現(xiàn)得像個男朋友”。這可能是因為他實際上對你很友好。你可能需要重新思考你對他的行為的看法。
無論如何，如果一個人不想成為你生活的一部分，你除了繼續(xù)前進(jìn)，別無選擇。你對他的感情可能永遠(yuǎn)不會消失，但最終，你將能夠珍惜這些記憶，在一個更好的地方生活。
You should first come out of that tragedy. Be normal and accept that he wasn't meant for you. And be thankful to god that before any more worse could have happened you are saved. And coming to the other gal, if you are sure enough that your ex is fooling her then you should make her aware of that. But only for once. Not more than that.
God bless you :)
你應(yīng)該先從那場悲劇中走出來。保持正常生活，接受他不是為你而生的。感謝上帝，在更糟糕的事情發(fā)生之前，你已經(jīng)得救了。說到另一個女孩，如果你確信你的前任在愚弄她，那么你應(yīng)該讓她意識到這一點。但只給一次機會，僅此而已。
上帝保佑你：）
Forget about him and move on with your life.....
For the fact that he behaves like a bf and only told you about his mum dislike of you after you saw his chat only shows that he intends to play you for as long as possible till he's ready to marry to the other girl.
That you found out soon is a blessing in disguise for you. I know it hurts to lose someone you love, but moving on now is the best thing for you to do.
There are many guys who will be willing and happy to have you in their lives
忘掉他，繼續(xù)你的生活。
因為他之所以表現(xiàn)得像個男朋友，只是在你看到他的聊天記錄后才告訴你他媽媽不喜歡你，這只表明他打算盡可能長時間地扮演你男朋友，直到他準(zhǔn)備娶另一個女孩。
你很快就會發(fā)現(xiàn)，這對你來說是因禍得福。我知道失去你愛的人是痛苦的，但現(xiàn)在離開是你最好的選擇。
有很多人愿意并且很高興在他們的生活中擁有你。
The same thing happened to me and I tried my best to convince her. But, she just said that we are meant to together and just left me.
At that night my best friend sent me a message, out of the blue as if he knows about my situation, though he didn't know. But it hit the nail on point and that was the best decision was of my life I took after it.
The message was like this,
“If you cry because the sun has gone out of your life, your tears will prevent you from seeing the stars.”
The decision was according to my condition only, but I strongly advise you to think about your situation and condition and act according to it. Take your time to think and come to some decision. If you still want to pursue that relationship than go for it.
And remember 'Sometime best revenge is to smile and move on'.
同樣的事情也發(fā)生在我身上，我盡力去說服她。但是，她只是說她們注定要在一起然后就離開了我。那天晚上，我最好的朋友突然給我發(fā)了一條信息，他好像知道我的情況，其實他并不知道。但它擊中了要害，那是我一生中做出的最好的決定。它傳達(dá)的信息是這樣的:如果你因為太陽離開了你的生活而哭泣，你的眼淚將會阻止你看到星星。這個決定只是根據(jù)我的情況做出的，但我強烈建議你考慮一下你的情況和條件，并根據(jù)它采取行動?；c時間想想，然后再做決定。如果你還想繼續(xù)這段關(guān)系，那就放手吧。記住“有時候，最好的報復(fù)就是微笑著繼續(xù)前行?！?br />