Hi everyone. So, I am Ukrainian but my boyfriend is Chinese. We've met and started dating when he was studying here and have been in a long-distance relationship after he graduated and moved back to China. Ukraine is not very safe right now and does not have good job prospects for electronics engineers, so he moved, and I had stayed in my home country because I needed to finish my residency in psychiatry. We are serious, so we did not break up. Now, we had planned to both move to the UK in 2025 after getting some experience in our respective fields, but now my bf is having second thoughts and wants me to move to China. His mother is sick, and he wants to stay in China for at least a couple more years to be with her. I completely understand that, but what are my prospects career-wise? Are there any hospitals for foreigners in China where I would be able to get a license to work? I don't know any Chinese but am fluent in English. Please advise.

大家好。嗯,我是烏克蘭人,但我的男朋友是中國人。我們在他在這里學習時認識并開始約會,在他畢業(yè)并搬回中國后,我們一直保持著異地戀。烏克蘭現(xiàn)在不太安全,電子工程師的就業(yè)前景也不好,所以他搬走了,而我留在我的祖國,因為我需要完成精神病學的住院醫(yī)生培訓。我們很認真,所以我們沒有分手。現(xiàn)在,我們計劃在2025年在各自領域積累經驗后一起搬到英國,但現(xiàn)在我的男朋友改變了主意,并希望我搬到中國。他的母親生病了,他想在中國陪她至少再待幾年。我完全理解這一點,但我的職業(yè)前景如何?在中國有沒有專門為外國人提供執(zhí)業(yè)許可的醫(yī)院?我不懂中文,但英語流利。請指教。
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upxe: We just had a huge fight, where he implied I might have another man. I have never been so disrespected in any of my relationships. We have been dating for two years and are both strictly monogamous people. We survived war and long-distance together, but it seems that all this time, he did not trust me. I still love him to pieces, but I also respect myself and cannot be with someone who does not trust me. I do not know how to recover from this. All he gives me are weak excuses like "it's not you, it's me". I really thought we had it, and this was the relationship to end all relationships. For life. Guess not. Thank you, everyone, for your advice and support! I am thinking of ending things with him.

更新:我們剛剛發(fā)生了一場激烈的爭吵,他暗示我可能有其他男人。我從來沒有在任何一段感情中受到過如此不尊重。我們已經交往兩年,我們都是嚴格的一夫一妻制者。我們一起經歷了戰(zhàn)爭和異地戀,但似乎一直以來,他并不信任我。我仍然深愛著他,但我也尊重自己,不能和一個不信任我的人在一起。我不知道如何從這種情況中恢復。他只給我一些脆弱的借口,比如“不是你的問題,是我的問題”。我真的以為我們能走到最后,這將是一段終身的感情??磥聿皇?。謝謝大家的建議和支持!我正在考慮和他分手。