街坊：為什么這么多的菲律賓女人嫁給外國男人？
Why Do So Many Filipina Women Marry Foreigners? | Street Interview
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金錢高于一切。
順便說一句，她們都是了不起的女人，通常都很照顧家人。西方男性可能更喜歡她們，因為她們不像本國女性那樣清醒，可以很好地照顧家庭。菲律賓人通常以家庭為導(dǎo)向，希望有很多孩子。
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Wonderwon123
Money is above anything else.
金錢高于一切。
theboredengineer2947
I'm a Filipina who married a Japanese guy yet I don't have any financial problems in my family. I'm one of those Filipinos who live in nice subdivisions. Thing is, when I was single, I had bad experiences with dating Filipino men. They didn't take me seriously as I wanted a date to marry route. They just cheated on me or blatantly have no long term plans. I changed the dating field and unexpectedly ended up with a Japanese man just 6yrs older than me.
我是一個菲律賓人，嫁給了一個日本人，但我的家庭沒有任何經(jīng)濟問題。我是那些住在高檔小區(qū)的菲律賓人之一。問題是，當我單身的時候，我有過和菲律賓男人約會的糟糕經(jīng)歷。他們并沒有把我當回事，因為我想要一個以結(jié)婚為目的的人戀愛。他們只是欺騙了我，或者很顯然沒有長遠計劃。我改變了約會路徑，意外地找到了一個比我大6歲的日本男人。
I'm a Filipina who married a Japanese guy yet I don't have any financial problems in my family. I'm one of those Filipinos who live in nice subdivisions. Thing is, when I was single, I had bad experiences with dating Filipino men. They didn't take me seriously as I wanted a date to marry route. They just cheated on me or blatantly have no long term plans. I changed the dating field and unexpectedly ended up with a Japanese man just 6yrs older than me.
我是一個菲律賓人，嫁給了一個日本人，但我的家庭沒有任何經(jīng)濟問題。我是那些住在高檔小區(qū)的菲律賓人之一。問題是，當我單身的時候，我有過和菲律賓男人約會的糟糕經(jīng)歷。他們并沒有把我當回事，因為我想要一個以結(jié)婚為目的的人戀愛。他們只是欺騙了我，或者很顯然沒有長遠計劃。我改變了約會路徑，意外地找到了一個比我大6歲的日本男人。
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Asian Boss always, always, focus on asking the low income sector or poorer sector, like almost in every video they feature about the Philippines. Instead of addressing the stereotypes about Filipinos and Filipino women.
Well, they interviewed low-income people, it’s common sense that the answers would be for “money,” but if they interviewed at least upper middle to well-off ones, they’d get different answers.
Asian Boss總是這樣，總是專注于采訪低收入的人，就像他們在每一個關(guān)于菲律賓的視頻中所展示的那樣。而不是改變外人對菲律賓人和菲律賓婦女的刻板印象。
嗯，他們采訪了低收入人群，答案肯定為了“錢”，這是常識。但如果他們至少采訪了中上階層到富裕階層，他們會得到不同的答案
Chinese men are marrying a lot of foreigners too because there are now more men in China then women. A lot of Chinese men are marrying Filipino, Laos and Vietnamese women.
中國男人也有很多娶了外國人，因為現(xiàn)在中國男人比女人多。很多中國男人都娶了菲律賓、老撾和越南的女人。
Why not other east asians?
為什么不是其他的東亞人？
Other east asian women are not marrying or dating. Japan, China, Korea's birth rate is very low right now.
其他東亞女性不想結(jié)婚或約會。目前日本、中國和韓國的出生率都很低。
Please don't have too many expectations about Korean people; they may not fulfill your fantasies.
請不要對韓國人抱有太多期望；他們可能無法實現(xiàn)你的幻想。
I agree, knowing that some of them are abusive...
我同意，因為我知道他們中的一些人很虐待。。。
Fr, even after the news or the viral videos of Koreans showing racism towards us and other Southeast Asians.
呃，有很多韓國人對我們和其他東南亞人表現(xiàn)出種族主義的新聞和走紅視頻
better than marrying westerner, thats for sure
當然，這比嫁給西方人要好
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Personally, I'm mixed ethnicity American myself, I've also raised my son on my own, & have never needed anyone's help, but I have no problem with Americans or other Westerners marrying foreign born people, like that one guy said in the video, the mixing of peoples is a beautiful thing.
就我個人而言，我自己也是混血美國人，我也獨自撫養(yǎng)過我的兒子，從不需要任何人的幫助，但我對美國人或其他西方人與外國人結(jié)婚的事情沒有異議。就像一個人在視頻中所說的那樣，人與人之間的融合是一件美好的事情。
I can sense the passport bros from a distance.
得到通行證。兄弟，我大老遠都聽到算盤了
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In Japan, we say “You don’t marry a Filipina, you end up marrying their family”.
在日本，我們說“你不只是嫁/娶菲律賓人，而是嫁/娶他們的家人”。
Im not Japanese but based on experience, you indeed marry their family
我不是日本人，但根據(jù)經(jīng)驗，你確實嫁給了他們一大家子
Exactly. You have to financially take care of their family. That's their problem.
確實，你必須在經(jīng)濟上照顧他們的家庭。這是他們的問題。
Well, here in Canada I've met incredible Filipina women, and most of them are very independent, hard working, and won't expect you to give a single penny for her or her family. My girlfriend herself is a Filipina and all that she requires from me is loyalty and lots of attention and love, which I'll gladly give.
好吧，在加拿大，我遇到了令人難以置信的菲律賓女性，她們中的大多數(shù)都非常獨立，努力工作，不會指望你為她或她的家人付出一分錢。我的女朋友本身就是菲律賓人，她對我的要求就是忠誠、關(guān)注和愛，我很樂意付出。
"So why do you want to marry a foreigner?"
Them: "Money"
“所以你們?yōu)槭裁聪爰藿o一個外國人？”
她們：“因為錢”
as one of the women said in the videos, it's a negative stereotype about Filipinas.
正如其中一名女性在視頻中所說，這是對菲律賓人的負面刻板印象。
It’s true. Not all Filipinos are attracted to foreigners. There are also rich/middle class/poor Filipinos who work hard and don’t need foreigners to live. This was filmed in a poor area, so of course you’d judge them LOL. Let them go to Makati, answer would be 100% different.
這是真的。并不是所有的菲律賓人都被外國人所吸引。有的菲律賓人（不論是否富有），他們工作努力，不需要外國人來生活。這是在一個貧困地區(qū)拍攝的采訪，所以你們當然會評判他們（笑）。讓他們?nèi)GC或馬卡堤，答案會百分百不同。
money , better life
因為錢，因為更好的生活
Having been in Filipino culture…this is true. Especially if the guy is a white man..I could go further but ima leave it at that.
體驗過菲律賓文化…這是真的。尤其是如果這個人是白人的話……我可以說得更多，但就止步于此吧。
keep going.
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I’m dating someone from the US but I could assure you that I’m more well-off. (He’s American-Chinese, I’m Filipino-Chinese and we’re of the same age) I live in the Philippines, he lives in the US. Am I in for the green card? No.
We also met when I was traveling to the US. Not all Filipinos are the same.
我正在和一個美國人約會，但我可以向你保證，我更有錢。（他是美籍華人，我是菲律賓華人，我們同齡）我住在菲律賓，他住在美國。我會獲得綠卡嗎？不
我們也是在我去美國旅行時認識的。并不是所有的菲律賓人都是一樣（貪財）的。
Sad reality of how the world works... Money buys all
世界運轉(zhuǎn)的悲慘現(xiàn)實……錢能買到一切
even human rights
甚至人權(quán)
I'm curious about how many of the 15,000 foreigners who have married Filipinas did so with the intention of purchasing properties in the Philippines or starting a business there. It's difficult to determine the exact number or conduct a survey on this, but it's definitely a possibility. I doubt that most of these men are extremely wealthy or well-off in their own countries. Perhaps marrying a Filipina is a way for them to have a more comfortable retirement, establish a business, or invest in properties that would be challenging to do in their home country. It would be interesting if the channel could also showcase these foreign nationals and their reasons for marrying Filipinas in a future video.
我很好奇，在15000名與菲律賓人結(jié)婚的外國人中，有多少人是為了在菲律賓購買房產(chǎn)或在那里創(chuàng)業(yè)。很難確定確切的數(shù)字或?qū)Υ诉M行調(diào)查，但這絕對是有可能的。我懷疑這些人中的大多數(shù)在自己的國家是否非常富有或富裕。也許嫁給菲律賓人能讓他們擁有更舒適的退休生活，或者進行在本國很有挑戰(zhàn)性的創(chuàng)業(yè)投資。如果該頻道也能在未來的視頻中展示這些外國公民的生活及其與菲律賓人結(jié)婚的原因，那將是一件有趣的事情。
Foreigners can't buy property in the Philippines without marrying a Philippine citizen?
外國人不嫁給菲律賓公民就不能在菲律賓買房？
Great conversation! Thank you!
很棒的采訪！謝謝！
South east asian patriarchy is different and difficult then western patriarchy. Serving husband and children is easier then obeying and serving husband and his parents and siblings. Western cooking and cleaning is comparatively easier than eastern world. So even rich girls try to escape patriarchy.
東南亞父權(quán)制與西方父權(quán)制是不同的，也是困難的。為丈夫和孩子服務(wù)比為一大家子服務(wù)容易一些。西方的烹飪清潔標準比東方的要相對低一些。因此，即使是富有的女孩也試圖逃離父權(quán)制。
Are you even South east asian? Where tf did you hear about south east asian patriarchy.
你是東南亞人嗎？你從哪里聽說東南亞父權(quán)制的。
Ain’t that the TRUTH.
這不是事實嗎。
blah, thats cope. asian women who marry out esp to westerner always say patriarchy this patriarchy that. shame! patriarchy is not a problem.
等等，那就能對上了。嫁給西方人的亞洲女人總是說父權(quán)這個父權(quán)那個。羞恥！父權(quán)制不是問題。
You just want to have your cake and eat it too.
Lazy and spoiled.
Edit: grow up!
你只想擁有你的蛋糕并吃掉它。
懶惰，且被寵壞了。
編輯：請長大！
By that logic, then where are all the Middle Eastern woman marrying foreigner? No patriarchy in Middle East countries?
按照這個邏輯，那么那些嫁給外國人的中東女人在哪里呢？中東國家沒有父權(quán)制？
Patriarchy? The Philippines is not Malaysia or Indonesia or Myanmar. Southeast Asians do not share the same culture. We're #16 of the world's most gender-equal countries, and the most gender-equal country in the entirety of Asia in the 2023 Global Gender Gap Index. What are you even talking about?
父權(quán)制？菲律賓不是馬來西亞、印度尼西亞或緬甸。東南亞人的文化并不相同。在2023年全球性別差距指數(shù)中，我們是世界上性別平等程度最高的國家之一，也是整個亞洲性別平等程度最高的國家。你在說什么？
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Girls, be smart! Date and marry the person who treats you best AND can provide for you! Don't marry just for "love" or for looks. You will regret it!
If a foreigner treats you best go for it. It doesn't matter what people around you say.
Don't wait until you marry someone who treats you badly then leaves you and your kids before you date the right person. Make the right decision from the beginning!
女孩們，聰明點！去約會并嫁給一個對你最好、能養(yǎng)得起你的人！不要僅僅為了“愛情”或長相而結(jié)婚。你會后悔的！
如果一個外國人對你最好，那就去做吧。你周圍的人怎么說都無關(guān)緊要。
不要等到你嫁給了一個對你不好的人，然后離開了你和你的孩子，才和合適的人約會。從一開始就做出正確的決定！
aside from that more and more Filipinas are choosing to stay in the Philippines due to the current situation in the West. They are in a downfall, while generally the Asian nations are booming. It does not make sense.
除此之外，由于西方目前的局勢，越來越多的菲律賓人選擇留在菲律賓。西方正在衰落，而亞洲國家總體上正在蓬勃發(fā)展。這（指菲律賓女人嫁給外國人）沒有道理。
money,if the foreigner has no money,then no relationship
錢，如果外國人沒有錢，那么菲律賓女人也就不會和他們確定關(guān)系
So this was told to me by my friend, a lady from Philippines. Firstly a lot of middle class parents tell their kids to become nurses because it's very easy to get a job in western countries due to high demand, so, escape your own country. Secondly, once one person is dating and married to a foreigner she will do her utmost to get the girls in the family to be introduced to foreigner men in her husbands circles so that they can also escape Philippines. Apparently it's harder being a woman in Philippines.
BTW they are great women and generally look after their families a lot. Western men probably prefer them because they are not as woke as women in their country and can look after a family well. Philippinos usually are family orientated and want to have lots of kids.
I completely understand that not everyone is the same and I am. Only talking from my own experience.
這是我的朋友，一位來自菲律賓的女士告訴我的。首先，許多中產(chǎn)階級父母告訴他們的孩子成為護士。因為在西方國家人們對護士的需求量大，很容易找到工作，進而她們可以逃離自己的國家。其次，一旦一個人與外國人約會并結(jié)婚，她會盡最大努力讓家里的女孩被介紹給她丈夫圈子里的其他外國男人，這樣他們也可以逃離菲律賓。顯然，在菲律賓做女人好難。
順便說一句，她們都是了不起的女人，通常都很照顧家人。西方男性可能更喜歡她們，因為她們不像本國女性那樣清醒，可以很好地照顧家庭。菲律賓人通常以家庭為導(dǎo)向，希望有很多孩子。
我完全理解不是每個人都是一模一樣的，我也是。這些只是從我自己的經(jīng)歷來說的。
Why? Because 1 month salary in rich nations is probably their annual salary
為什么？因為在富裕國家一個月的工資可能就是他們的年薪
in America many young Filipino girls marry elderly white men.
在美國，許多年輕的菲律賓女孩嫁給了老白男。
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